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You like music? What a coincidence

Posted on May 31, 2012

On a number of occasions I’ve had guys, particularly young guys, tell me that they are kinky and into everything. I think that the following joke is the best response to this:  A man is sitting at a bar, looking very depressed, when he strikes up a conversation with a woman who is also looking pretty down in the dumps. After a while, and several drinks, he admits in a moment of indiscretion that he has just been dumped by his wife because he was too kinky for her.  The woman looks at him with incredulity and also admits that she was recently dumped by her husband for being too kinky. They look at each other and agree to cocktails at the woman’s apartment. After a couple more drinks, she tells him she’s going to slip into something a...

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Is there anything good on TV?

Posted on May 30, 2012

Sissyboy’s favourite TV program is watching his ass getting spanked live on CCTV.  Having the wax that was dripped on slowly whipped off quickly with a flogger and cat’o’nine tails is his idea of a good time. Note the spreader bar which means you can get right into his crack during his punishment – if you can land a strike right on his hole then he definitely knows about...

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It’s beginning to look a lot like Xmas

Posted on May 30, 2012

I think I’ve mentioned before how much Sissyboy loves pain games. What better way to hurt him than with hot wax. It really does look a lot like snow. Perhaps I should produce a range of kinky Xmas cards with little figurines and pine trees on a snowy background – that is actually a boy’s cock, balls and ass covered in...

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Good help is so hard to find!

Posted on May 29, 2012

I’ve been looking for a house boy to help out around the apartment. When you have as much gear as I have, then I really need someone to help me keep it sorted out and appropriately arranged. There are stainless steel toys to boil and polish, leather to buff and dildos to wash in anti-bacterial soap. I advertised for a house boy to help out for a few hours a week – and it has been harder than I expected. Lots of interest from older guys, but I was really after a young guy that I could mentor in BDSM as they learned about the gear. I had an expression of interest from someone that didn’t end up working out – and I thought it was worth showing you what happened. I got the following response to my advertisement:...

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Non-verbal doesn’t mean non-oral

Posted on May 27, 2012

In a previous post I wrote about sex with a deaf guy. I thought that people might also be interested in the time I played with a boy with cerebral palsy. We started chatting on Grindr. He was hot and cute, a bottom and barely out of his teens. In other words, pretty much my ideal type. Online he was articulate and funny and we agreed to hook up. Only after we swapped details and arranged a time did he mention that he had a disability. So I had that mild annoyance of “well you could have told me that earlier” but I decided to be my normal open minded self. I actually had every opportunity to cancel, and for a split second a considered the thought of simply not answering my buzzer, but thought it could be an...

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Seen but not heard…

Posted on May 24, 2012

I once had amazing sex with a deaf guy. It was with a thin, asian, twinky guy in his early twenties who I picked up and ploughed senseless. What made this experience incredibly memorable was the way he moaned. I’ve often complained that sometimes moaning during sex can seem forced or scripted. I remember one time in New York when I fucked a young opera singer who while being fucked never let up from a constant babble of constant porn star talk of “oh yeah, fuck that ass, do me hard, oh baby” etcetera. I love boys who are loud and I love genuine moaning. But I want to feel that the reactions are genuine. Fucking a boy who sounds like he spent most of his formative teenager years reviewing Falcon’s back catalogue and learning to moan like a...

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Safe and Sane – Rope Work

Posted on May 22, 2012

If you are getting into rope play, then you really need to consider getting something like this.  A rope cutter. Not necessarily for routine use during the session, but it should be kept somewhere close so that you can get someone out of bondage very quickly.  There might be any number of reasons for this. The sub might unexpectedly panic and need to be released. A knot might not be able to be untied as planned. Someone might start to loose feeling in a limb. A house mate, or worse parent, might come home unexpectedly.  They only cost a few dollars and are available from major hardware stores. In the model below, the yellow cover has been removed. Better safe than sorry!   🙂  ...

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Amusing musings

Posted on May 22, 2012

BDSM can be funny, and sweet and passionate. As regular readers of this site will be aware, I’m not generally a ‘suck it bitch’ kind of master. I prefer to work over boys with patience and humour – but don’t try and test me or I’ll will very calmly hurt you until you obey (or use the safeword). Don’t mistake my humour as an indication I won’t spank you very hard and methodically if required. The following events have amused me in recent times…. Puppy Play Goes Too Far While filming a scene in an outdoor spa in someone’s home their pet dog decided to check out the action and wandered into shot. This home is regularly used for fisting parties, so I’m sure it wasn’t anything the puppy hadn’t seen before. It looked curiously at the action for...

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Super Sissyboy

Posted on May 17, 2012

Every now and then you find a sub you have a really amazing connection with….and Sissyboy is definitely one of those. I love his body, his attitude and his cock sucking ability. All he needs to learn is how to take a fist and he will be pretty much a perfect sub boy. Here are a small selection of pics that I have taken of him over the...

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Mick and Sissyboy

Posted on May 17, 2012

There’s something erotic about seeing two bi guys having sex with each other. Sissyboy is one of my regular sub boys – and when he came over he had no idea what he was in for. He assumed it was another one on one session. As per usual when he arrived he knocked and stood with his back to the door while I hooded him, blindfolded him and dragged him inside. Almost immediately, there was another knock at the door and Mick arrived. Mick is a hot, totally fuckable guy. I wish I could show you his face. Mick jumped in the shower to freshen up. I striped Sissyboy naked and got him into a collar and harness. Mick dried off and I introduced them. Sissyboy couldn’t see him, and in fact wasn’t allowed to see him at all...

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New York Bondage Club

Posted on May 13, 2012

New York.  There’s so much to like about this city. Broadway shows. Off-Broadway shows. Off-Off-Broadway shows. Picking up a hot young performer at Marie’s Crisis and taking him back to your hotel to fuck the hell out of him (you know who you are). Having a pastrami sandwich at Katz and resisting the urge to snigger at their “Send a salami to your boy in the army” slogan. And of course, going to the New York Bondage Club. I really enjoy watching good bondage being undertaken. It is unfortunate that many guys aren’t prepared to take the time to do elaborate bondage or have it done to them. It is totally fine to only be into bondage as a means of restraint as part of a power play, but there can be incredible beauty in elaborate rope work. There...

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The Cactus

Posted on May 11, 2012

This is the Cactus…an amazing toy. It isn’t for beginners – the little bumps feel incredibly intense, almost like it is cutting your ass.  It goes in smooth for the first inch – and then the fun begins. You can also turn it around and fuck them with the handle. I’ll post a review of this toy by a boy soon.   😉 Yes, Sissyboy, I’m talking to get you – get...

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Cherry Boy

Posted on May 11, 2012

A rough draft – I’ll come back and fix it up later – think of this as a preview. Over the years I’ve been lucky enough to fuck a number of cherry boys. Some of them had fooled around with other guys. Some had sucked a lot of cock. Some had even topped before. But I’m talking about that first time a boy finds himself with a hard cock deep in his butt. Every boy has a different reaction to their first fuck. For some guys it hurts. For some it is pleasure and pain. For all of them it is a big step that they are taking with me – and it’s an honour. This particular cherry boy was mid twenties and had sucked his fair share of cock but had never been fucked. He was interested in...

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Stainless Steel Fun

Posted on May 11, 2012

As many of you know, I love stainless steel. Here are three of my favourite toys. The toy with the five balls in increasing size is one of my favourites. It was one of my first stainless steel toys. I’ve had it for more than a decade and it still looks brand new. It’s been up more asses than I can count. The small ball is really small and is perfect for ass play beginners. I generally start by pushing one ball in and then pull it out, repeat that a few times, and then try it with two balls. Then three.  Sometimes beginners can’t take all five – not because of the size of the last ball but because of the depth required. The rod of balls is also great. No difference in size between the bals, but...

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Sling when you’re winning

Posted on May 10, 2012

People with a rudimentary understanding of kink know about the existence of slings. However, many beginners don’t understand why they are so great. Sooner or later, someone will start making them in pink and rename them ‘love supports’. Oprah will declare them one of her favourite things and every home in America will have one within a month. But until then those of us with slings have an advantage – better sex than everyone else. There are a couple of reasons as to why sling sex is so good and it is good to take the time occasionally to reflect. The first is that the bottom boy gets to relax. It is much easier to relax your butt when the rest of you is comfortable. If you are being fucked on your back on a bed, or anywhere else...

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Snowman

Posted on May 9, 2012

This is a great toy – but not necessarily for beginners. The three stainless steel balls are smoothly attached to the shaft. They get bigger and bigger – but not so big that it is impossible for a good bottom to take. The challenge with this toy is actually the length. In order to take the big ball you need to get that little ball really far into your ass. Not really for beginners – but an awesome toy. I sought out this toy after seeing it used in a Bound Gods shoot. We have used it in a number of shoots too – and it is always a challenge for the bottom boy.  Good stuff!  🙂 If you want to order one yourself: http://bluediamondtradingco.com/Triple-Ball-SnowMan-Hook-CAP018.htm The guys were lovely when I ordered.  🙂  And no, I’m not being paid...

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