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The Master Is In

Posted on Jun 30, 2012

One of the things I love about BDSM is teaching younger guys. Always a pleasure to respond to requests for advice received by email (keep them coming): Hey ๐Ÿ™‚ I have been reading your profile for a while now. And I just saw your beginner post. My situation is this: I have a boyfriend. He’s a top. I can’t top as I have a less than average size penis. But bottoming hurts. I’d also be curious to try some more extreme stuff with him too. I bought some butt plugs, a vibrator etc.. But yeah I don’t know where to start. Any advice? Would it be bad of me to ask you for a session with just me? Thanks in advance, Alex ๐Ÿ™‚ Hi Alex I’ll write you a long response but first do you mind if I ask...

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Planning The First Time

Posted on Jun 29, 2012

I have a lot of guys contact me who are beginners and want to know what a beginner session would involve. ย I generally take some time to work out what sort of session they are after. Regular sex? Kinky sex? Playing with toys? Giving up control? How much experience do they have? Beginners often make two mistakes: – They want to try everything in their first session – They want to start with really hardcore stuff My advice is always to start slow. You can always get more hardcore at subsequent sessions. There isn’t any rush – enjoy each new experience and savour it. You can only try things for the first time once!ย  ๐Ÿ™‚ The first choice is whether to be blindfolded on arrival. Some boys love to be blindfolded and only meet me afterwards. Other wants to...

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Sissyboy’s Reaction

Posted on Jun 27, 2012

Following my last session with Sissyboy, I chatted with him online – here is an excerpt from the conversation: Andrew: That was awesome Sissyboy: all ways isย  ๐Ÿ™‚ Andrew: I think it was one of the best yet ๐Ÿ˜‰ I loved the wax while pounding you Sissyboy: Last night probably my second fav, time before that was OMG WOWโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆ. Andrew: What made the time before that better? ๐Ÿ˜‰ Sissyboy: you fucked me to the point of orgasm more times ๐Ÿ˜› Andrew: Haha ๐Ÿ™‚ย  I’m going to write up last night and put it on soxster.com – what do you think I should say about it? Sissyboy: when pleasure meets pain ๐Ÿ˜› Andrew:ย  What bit did you like most? And describe how you felt when I was dripping your cock with wax, jerking you off and fucking you all at...

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Flexible Working Arrangements

Posted on Jun 27, 2012

Over the years I’ve been lucky enough to have sex with a number of ballet dancers. The first time you fuck a ballet dancer when he is lying on his back and he decides to tuck a leg or two behind his head it’s a little off putting. But you get used to it really fast. And then you realise how awesome it is. In my experience, ballet dancers are just incredible at sex. I once told a friend that I was often surprised how many beautiful, fit, ballet dancers wanted to be worked over by an average guy like me, and he replied “I guess fucking another ballet dancer would feel like work”. ย Hil-arious. I think that one of the reasons that many ballet dancers are into BDSM, and are really good at it, is that it is...

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Hot Cock

Posted on Jun 26, 2012

Last night I had an awesome session with Sissyboy. He is definitely one of my favourite boys.ย  He is well trained and knows that when he arrives he is to stand with his back to my front door with his eyes closed ready to be blindfolded and dragged inside. Normally I strip him naked and make him worship my cock but I decided to mix things up a bit for this session. I pulled a full leather hood over his head – no eye holes, just some small holes for air – and dragged him inside. I stripped him naked and after feeling him all over and teasing him, I dragged him into the bedroom. I decided to fit him with suspension cuffs – cuffs that have three straps on each hand that can allow a guy to swing...

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Spanish mares

Posted on Jun 22, 2012

In a previous post I talked about my experience at Fickstutenmarkt, or ‘Horse Fair’, that I attended in Berlin. The bottom boys, or Mares, arrive first and are hooded and arranged naked around a club. The tops, or Stallions, then arrive and fuck them senseless. It was without a doubt, the best night of group sex I have ever had – and I’ve had quite a bit.ย  ๐Ÿ˜‰ ย  I posted a link to my experience at Fickstutenmarkt on their guest book on their web page. It has been getting a fair bit of interest. Before I went there myself I checked out the guest book and was drawn to many of the comments in English.ย  I thought you all might be interested in the following discussion I’ve been having with a Spanish mare.ย  I asked him to write...

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MMmmmmmm….shiny

Posted on Jun 18, 2012

My love of stainless steel toys is well documented on this site. I thought you would like to know about my recent purchases.ย  My four latest toys are three butt plugs and a solid steel dildo. Two of the butt plugs are the same but with different jewelled ends – one in ‘diamond’ (clear) and red. The solid dildo is a good warm up to one of my favourite toys to use on boys – the Njoy Eleven. Google it if you don’t know it – a truly excellent toy. Small stuff up with one order. The butt plug with a ring on the end was supposed to be one of two. I guess no one ever ordered two of them before. But then I guess no one else has been evil enough to realise that if you have...

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Sacha Corruption Video

Posted on Jun 16, 2012

And to go with the previous post – some video clips!ย  ๐Ÿ™‚

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The Corruption of Sacha

Posted on Jun 16, 2012

These photos were taken nearly ten years. I was working over a hot 22yo boy named Sacha. We played a few times. I once surprised him with a gangbang, but that’s a story for another time.ย  ๐Ÿ™‚ย  Thought you might enjoy the following pics from all those years ago.ย  I tracked Sacha down on Facebook to ask him if I could publish these pics and the ones from the gangbang. “By all means use any pics or vids you want I don’t mind at all!” was his response.ย  He has some fond memories of his gangbang which is nice to know. As I approach my mid thirties, it is a little weird to reflect that many of the 18 year olds that I fucked when I was in my mid 20s are about to turn 30! In fact, I’ve...

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Questions and Suggestions

Posted on Jun 15, 2012

Does anyone have any questions on BDSM they would like answered? There aren’t many things I haven’t done. Ask away! Don’t just limit it to questions on physical acts and specific kinks but also the mental side of sex. I tend to play with a lot of younger guys and I’m used to explaining things to beginners. ๐Ÿ™‚ย  Email soxsterchat@gmail.com and let’s make learning fun.ย  ๐Ÿ˜‰...

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Steel and Wax

Posted on Jun 15, 2012

This shoot was really simple. I tied up Kristian and then lit candles to drip hot was over his cock and his balls which were being held taught by a steel collar attached to heavy weights and his ankles. Complicate it with a vibrator up his ass that can be remotely controlled, and the Njoy stainless steel plug up his ass – and it all gets very interesting.ย  I love the part of the video where I pull the wax covering his balls off in one piece. I think that’s my favourite part of wax play. If you don’t shave your balls and then you come play with me – then just remember that there’s a chance your balls might be smooth by the end of the session.ย ...

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Police Interuptus

Posted on Jun 14, 2012

We were just a couple of horny teenagers driving around a rural area outside of Melbourne. We had been out at a party and didn’t want our night to end just yet. We drove around and talked, and then started feeling each other up as he drove. I felt his rather impressive teen cock as he kept one hand on the wheel and played with my crotch with the other. It was a cold winters night and the heating in the car wasn’t perfect. The inside of the windows was foggy. He was a shy guy who hadn’t had much experience with guys. He definitely wasn’t entirely happy about the prospect of being gay – his entire future was suppose to consist of a wife, kids, suburban home – that was his dream.ย  I think what I adored most...

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Stairwell Suck

Posted on Jun 12, 2012

So a very hot boy who blows me occasionally – and who has the second hottest mouth I’ve ever experienced – just sms’d me and asked if I was available for a quickie before he caught the last train home….this all happened less than an hour ago. Jeremy: Licks you Andrew: Hey sexyย  ๐Ÿ™‚ย  how are you? Jeremy: Hahaha a little drunk haha and u! Andrew: Horny.ย  ๐Ÿ˜‰ Jeremy: Oh really? When u last blow! I’m at drinks haha near by! Thought of your massive dick haha Andrew: Last blew last night Jeremy: Mmm wot a waste! Wot you doing? Andrew: Where are you? Jeremy: Lol just around the corner. But really need to catch the last train home. U wanking ATM? Andrew: Was about to? Jeremy: How fast could u blow ๐Ÿ˜‰ if I only had a few...

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Twink Talk

Posted on Jun 11, 2012

I was talking with a straight friend at a gathering this weekend where there were many young gay guys present and discussion turned to the definition of the term ‘Twink’. I explained that it referred to a young guy who was still a bit cute and innocent who wasn’t a jock or a highly athletic guy. Young and sweet. “Ah like that American snack food – full of cream” he said. “Well not by the time I’ve finished with them” I replied. We laughed and a thought occurred to me. I addressed an imaginary a twink I had just used and abused. “I’m sorry, but you are still young and dumb.” Rather quick witted I thought. However, the young, dumb and full of cum stereotype isn’t true for young guys. Well no more so than for the general populace....

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Blowing Smoke

Posted on Jun 11, 2012

When it comes to the various available vices, I tend to focus on sex. I don’t drink a lot. Don’t smoke. Don’t do drugs (unless you count amyl).ย  But I think that what I do to my willing subs more than makes up for it to ensure that I don’t miss out on fun.ย  ๐Ÿ˜‰ However, I heard a story tonight that I thought was amusing. I was discussing with a friend how his first experience with marijuana was in boarding school – where he got baked with the dorm’s resident drug dealer.ย  We talked about how for people who don’t smoke, the act of inhaling a joint often isn’t pleasurable due to the heat of the air. We talked of various techniques to address this (and I learnt about apple bongs so the smoke is sweeter), and he...

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Suitable for a greek dinner?

Posted on Jun 11, 2012

I recently purchased a shirt and I now have a problem – where in the hell would be a suitable location to wear it? Interestingly, about half the people I show the shirt to (yes, at the very least it is a conversation piece), think of exactly what I thought of – the dinner scene from The...

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Melbourne is kinkier than Sydney

Posted on Jun 10, 2012

There is a long standing rivalry between Sydney and Melbourne. Australia actually built a new capital city, Canberra, from the ground up because it agreement couldn’t be reached as to whether Melbourne or Sydney should be the capital. I’m a proud Melbournian. When I try to explain to visitors the difference between Melbourne and Sydney I point out that Sydney is a little bit flashier, a bit more image conscious and is more divided into cliques. Melbourne is more down to earth – it is easier to live in Melbourne, more of a sense of community and a little more alternative. Think of Melbourne vs Sydney as San Francisco vs Los Angeles. Sydney doesn’t really do kink very well. There are some good parties, but from the people I know who have lived in both cities, there does seem...

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Fucking on Rails

Posted on Jun 10, 2012

There is something very satisfying making love on railway tracks at night.ย  I was a teenager who was hanging out with a fuck buddy and while we had access to a car, we didn’t have anywhere to go. It was about one am and we walked along the railway tracks and one thing led to another. We didn’t know if the last train had passed or not. We were out in the country – at the very limits of the metro network. Unlike London and New York you can quite safely have sex on train tracks in Australian cities as we have overhead power. No energized third rails. So it is perfectly safe to suck and fuck on railway tracks – provided you don’t get hit by a train. It was night time, a couple of kilometers from the...

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Sex and Immortality

Posted on Jun 9, 2012

I’m often asked for my opinion on what constitutes good porn. I think it’s fair to say that I’ve seen more than my fair share, and I’ve certainly made more than my fair share. A former flatmate of mine used to refer to himself as a “Pornoisseur”. He had a massive collection of VHS porn and I learned a lot from him about classic films and what makes a porn film great. The amount of porn being produced has exploded – but the number of truly great films remains pretty small. The amount of funding that a film has rarely impacts on how good it is. There is that indefinable ‘x-factor’ that applies when everything just works. My favourite porn scenes change with my tastes. A note to all the younger guys out there – your tastes in porn...

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Here’s looking at you, kid

Posted on Jun 8, 2012

I play with a lot of beginners – guys who haven’t had much sexual experience. I really enjoy showing guys new things, I guess it fulfils my love of education and teaching. So I wanted to share a story from right back when I first started having sex with guys. It’s a story that I think illustrates how important it is to consider the emotional side of sex as well as the physical. Feelings as well as mechanics. An amazing guy (who is still a friend) and I checked into a hotel in Melbourne for a night of fun. I hadn’t had much sexual experience – plenty of hurried hand-jobs and blow-jobs but without necessarily a lot of emotional connections. It wasn’t that I didn’t really like some of the guys I had played with, but because we were...

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American Navy Boys and Lard

Posted on Jun 7, 2012

If you are in any of the photos on this web page I’ve linked to below of American navy boys climbing a giant phallus covered in lard, get in touch: http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/the-ultimate-collection-of-hot-shirtless-navy-guys And seriously America – you’ve been doing this for years and it’s only now you are letting gays and lesbians serve openly?ย  Hil-arious. Australia and Canada have let gays and lesbians openly serve for twenty years. Just saying.ย  ๐Ÿ™‚ย  I still remember fondly some group sex I once had where some Australian naval officers and I pounded a young twink into submission. Awesome. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation_and_the_military_of_Australia...

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Gangbang Tops Wanted

Posted on Jun 7, 2012

I have a number of young guys who enjoy being gang banged. And many more of them have earned it by demonstrating they can take a long hard session. Put simply, I need guys in Melbourne, Australia who can help me fuck the hell out of them. ย  The sessions will normally involve a hot bottom boy being tied into a sling blindfolded and fucked for as long and as hard as possible. The mission for the tops is to push the bottom boy beyond his limits so he uses his safe word. The boys selected for this will have already proved they can take a hard session – so don’t go easy on them.ย  Most sessions are purely for fun. Some will be filmed but it’s entirely up to you if you participate with that. If you decide...

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Amusing Moments in Sex

Posted on Jun 7, 2012

A few more funny moments involving sex…because it can be very funny. Last week I was pounding the hell out of Sissyboy in the sling. I was grabbing him by his harness and throwing him around, and bitch slapping his face while power fucking him. It got pretty vigorous – and pretty vicious – which he loves.ย  At the end of the take, the cameraman said “did it just get all Showgirls in here?”. Classic. I got home from work a couple of weeks after returning from Berlin. I took my underpants off and my balls felt weird. Smoother and slicker than normal. I pondered this for a while – before I worked out that I was wearing the same underwear I had worn to Fickstutenmarkt in Germany. It turns out that my washing machine didn’t remove all of...

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Suck It Up 2

Posted on Jun 5, 2012

In a previous post (Suck It Up) I detailed my experiences with a hot boy who likes to be scared. Kyle loves to be made to cry. He has given me permission to post a small clip from our session. He is an amazing boy who I look forward to working over some more in the future. Somehow, working over a hot boy who is also intelligent and in touch with his submissive side is so much more interesting.ย  ๐Ÿ™‚ http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=vUrUS-G785-#.U8VB36jik7A   How cute are his screams?ย  ๐Ÿ™‚ For the record, there is a reasonable amount of air between his legs – so he was good for a few minutes inside the bag. The air gets really hot and wet – it is pretty intense.ย  I keep something suitable handy to get into the bag quickly. He had a...

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Alex’s First Time

Posted on Jun 5, 2012

I really enjoy hearing about the first experiences that boys have.ย  I’ve been talking to a British sub named Alex (n-uksub) who is a regular visitor to Australia who I am planning on working over when he is next in town. I asked him to write about his first BDSM experience – and I’m very glad I did. It’s always a pleasure to work over articulate boys who can express what they are feeling and who leave themselves open to the very emotional side of BDSM. For being so open and honest in his story, I think it is only fair to reward him with a very hardcore session – that I look forward to documenting and sharing with you all. So consider this a teaser!ย  ๐Ÿ™‚ This was my first BDSM experience with a top who lived in...

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In praise of uncertainty

Posted on Jun 1, 2012

A few of my friends and playmates have been a little critical of my response to Slave M cancelling his session (see the post on May 29 “Good help is so hard to find”). The consensus seems to be that I should have gone easier on a bi-boy who was reaching out to have a good time – and that I should have been more understanding. I absolutely appreciate that Slave M was making a real effort to try something new. And I totally understand how daunting that can be.ย  If you haven’t been fucked by a dude before then offering to be the houseboy to a BDSM expert is a big step. I guess my problem with this is that Slave M went from agreeing to try a session (for well over a week) – to expressing reservations...

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