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Daddy Issues

Posted on Nov 29, 2012

I did a session with a boy last night that was quite a bit different to what I normally do. He was a cute 21yo asian kid who loves daddy-son role play. What made it interesting was that he wasn’t very verbal at all. He had this tendency during the session of becoming very insular and unresponsive. Essentially he was playing the role of a very scared and submissive child who was almost in denial about what was happening. It makes perfect sense from a role play perspective but it meant that I had to work really hard to see if he was enjoying certain activities. I also wasn’t entirely comfortable with it – as I really prefer the boys who submit to me to be submitting willingly (eg. “I am choosing to submit to you”). He arrived and...

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Condom connections

Posted on Nov 26, 2012

A quote from a friend of mine that I thought was particularly apt. “When they say I don’t have to wear a condom I want to wear one more than ever.” Couldn’t agree more with that...

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More Hustaball Berlin Pics…

Posted on Nov 23, 2012

I’ve said this before, but it is worth restating that the boys on stage really looked like they were having a great time – and going WAAAAAY over their allotted times. Again, apologies for the low quality phone pics, but it gives you an idea. ...

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Adorkable Boys

Posted on Nov 21, 2012

Research indicates that a certain food can reduce a woman’s sex drive by about 80%. It’s called wedding cake. Are we really sure we want marriage equality for gay couples?  😉 There have been regular rallies for marriage equality in Melbourne. I was wondering why they were happening so often – and then I realised that it’s just a perfect excuse for a lot of guys to meet.  A perfect event – you get to meet people and go for a walk. If someone is willing to march in a rally they are probably out (which avoids meeting a boy with coming out issues), they are probably interested in having a long term relationship and they are probably politically aware.  In other words, lots and lots of hot adorkable boys. There are some totally adorable boys there. I remember...

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Sounds of Pleasure

Posted on Nov 20, 2012

From a recent shoot. There aren’t many nerves inside the cock – so when you use a thin sound with a bulb on the end you can really feel it as it fucks in and out. ...

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First Timers

Posted on Nov 19, 2012

I have a lot of guys contact me who are beginners and want to know what a beginner session would involve.  I generally take some time to work out what sort of session they are after. Regular sex? Kinky sex? Playing with toys? Giving up control? The first point is that I don’t play without a safeword. Generally I use the word “RED”. If the boy says that then the session stops immediately – and won’t be restarted that day. When the safeword is used, the boy is untied, unchained (or whatever!), they dress and leave. They can absolutely come back on another day. The point of a safeword is to protect both the top and bottom. But using it means the fun is over. This means that the top has an incentive not to push the boy too...

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Hustlaball – Boys Having Fun

Posted on Nov 18, 2012

You really have to admire the boys who were fucking on stage at Hustlaball in Berlin. They appeared to be having a really good time. The best proof of this is that they kept on going over their allotted time – which meant the drag queen stage manager had to keep holding up a clock and pointing at it to get them to wrap it up.  This was one of my favorite scenes. Look at the smile on the boy being fucked.  🙂  ...

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Grab your dick and double click

Posted on Nov 17, 2012

There is an old joke that says something along the lines of “20% of men admit to masturbation and 80% are liars”. I suspect the percentages for that joke have changed over time and that most people now admit to masturbation as it has become seen as a normal part of human sexuality. The film “Damon and Hunter – Doing It Together” is a documentary about a gay couple who talk about their sex life, how they met, and then have sex on camera. It was actually shot on film which is great. It’s definitely worth a look. The film makers were a heterosexual couple and the husband said that one of the things that he found interesting about the gay couple he filmed was that they were entirely comfortable masturbating themselves in front of the other during sex,...

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Edward from top to bottom – Part 2

Posted on Nov 16, 2012

I really enjoyed the first installment of Edward’s story. I had no idea that he was becoming such a good little sub boy. I’d like to assure all readers that this is absolutely true.  🙂  They are an adorable couple and now I want more than ever for them to come and do a really intense shoot. Plus I think that I really need to work over Edward’s cute hole – it’s pretty inexperienced, but I like that.  🙂  Here is Part 2. **************** So the weekend passed fairly uneventfully for us, went to the beach etc. Monday came around and I had the day off. I was asleep when Owner left but he had left the collar on the kitchen bench for me on his way out to go to work. Around 9am I woke up and...

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Hustlaball – Is that a mirror ball on your head?

Posted on Nov 15, 2012

More pics from Hustlaball 2012. The first strippers I saw on the main stage were these two cute boys. At least I thought they were strippers – but they went far further than that!  🙂  Again, sorry for the crap photos from my phone, but it at least gives you an idea. These guys had written on their bodies. After such a nice show, a free plug for them is really the least I can do!  🙂 Oh, and the photo of them showing their asses to the crowd was them bowing to the audience – just in the wrong direction....

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Edward from top to bottom….

Posted on Nov 14, 2012

A good friend of mine has found himself a totally adorable boyfriend. They are such a cute couple and I dream of the day they agree to do a scene for Soxster. However, they have been havingsome interesting sexual adventures recently. My friend has always been an expert cock sucking submissive, and his boyfriend Edward has always been the dominant…until last week…. Here is Edward’s adventure….where he discovered something new. *************** All right, let me set the scene for you. I am 21-year-old guy who prides himself on being open sexually and exploring. I love to learn all about sexuality all the little facets and nooks n crannies. Having always thought myself a top I tend to get off a lot more on being a Dom. I love collaring a guy up and making him do whatever I tell...

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Colourful Pegs

Posted on Nov 13, 2012

Did a great shoot tonight. One of my favourite models covered with a ton of pegs – what’s not to love!  ...

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Hole lot of trouble

Posted on Nov 12, 2012

So I was discussing my adventures with a friend, and we were talking about how I’m pretty good at opening up people slowly and gradually, which means I do stuff like fucking virgins with my massive cock, fisting 18yos and getting large toys into boys. He sat back and said with a thoughtful look said, “You know, I think I’m going to call you the Anal Whisperer”. That...

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Hustlaball – Sex by the Pool

Posted on Nov 11, 2012

While at Hustlaball I took quite a few photos with my phone. They are poor quality, but I thought you might like to see them anyway.  I’ve even included the crap ones because they give you a sense of what the night was like.  The following photos were taken by the pool. There were cute boys fooling around by the pool, and then they did a scene (with professional cameras) that I suspect will end up in a porn film in the near future.  Yes, that is a woman fisting a guy by the pool in one of the grainy photographs. It’s kinda cool to be in a group of guys – most of whom have their phones out snapping photos – as people get worked over in front of you. For many people there, I suspect that it...

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Posted on Nov 10, 2012

Some of you have written to me asking what I look like. While in Germany I visited the Lego shop and decided to make a mini-Andrew. I look so similar to this, it’s scary. It’s also kind of disturbing and reassuring that Lego makes handcuffs.   🙂  Those who know me – feel free to comment on the accuracy of this depiction!...

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Condoms and Porn

Posted on Nov 10, 2012

I’m proud of the fact that Soxster only films safer sex with condoms. Watching bareback sex can be hot, but I don’t want to be responsible for encouraging young guys to have bareback sex. If I thought that something I had produced was even in part responsible for someone having unsafe sex and contracting HIV then that’s too high a price to pay. I’m very open minded – and I’ll film pretty much any kink – except unsafe sex. It does seem that with older guys into kink (30s and 40s) there is a higher rate of unsafe sex, which is deeply concerning. Interestingly, most of the young guys I play with absolutely want to play safe – which I find very encouraging. We need to absolutely break any links between kink and unsafe sex. The fact you are...

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Bi Boys and Danish Queens – Part 2

Posted on Nov 8, 2012

More correspondence from our bi Danish boy, Christian. You might recall from a previous post that he is a young guy in a relationship with a girl, but he dreams of getting fucked by guys.   His response to my previous post below!  🙂 ********** Hi 🙂 I’m sorry that it took so long for me to reply. The exam went OK I think. No grade yet. But the main reason for the long wait is that I’ve been thinking a lot about the subject and how I feel. I’m sure it’s not a compromise from my side to be with men instead of women. It’s a definite turn-on for me. Remember that I’ve performed oral already 🙂 About the couple I can’t just watch – I’ve already asked :p – they have said that if I decide to come...

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Admirable Effort

Posted on Nov 7, 2012

When I was in my early 20s I was living in another city and I did a few three-ways with a guy named Jamie. He was in his late twenties and we preferred to play with younger guys. He was over at my house one evening and we were chatting online when we came across a cute 19yo who said he might be up for some fun.  We invited him over but he said he preferred us to come to him. We decided to head over there. We got to the apartment tower and buzzed and buzzed but he didn’t answer. We assumed he had changed his mind. It was only as we were leaving that we realized we had been buzzing the right apartment number but at the wrong building! (it was in a complex with a number...

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Training Grayson

Posted on Nov 6, 2012

Those who know me realize I like to keep busy. It is a rare evening when I have free time after work. But I love my life so I’m definitely not complaining. I’ve been talking with Grayson who is a hot eighteen year old for about six months. He is just so damn cute.  Short, great body, smooth chest, long hair perfect to wrap your fingers in. And a great smile. He has a breathless way of speaking. It’s as if every phrase is a mini explosion of a thought or idea from his mind. It’s very endearing. We met on Grindr and continued chatting on Skype. But we never managed to catch up. When he was in the city I always seemed to have something else on. He messaged me out of the blue on Saturday morning and...

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