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Digital Clocks Aren’t Romantic

Posted on Feb 25, 2013

A very funny comedienne once said that one of the least romantic things to have in your bedroom is a glowing digital clock. She said that it means that you can work out exactly how long the sex lasted –  and that most people would much rather be left their illusions. If it felt like it went for ages then you don’t need to know it was only three minutes. She pointed out that even in the height of passion, most people can still subtract – especially when three of the numbers on the clock haven’t changed. Filming sex means that you can find out from the time code exactly how long it went. I’ve always liked really long sessions and to an extent the video almost becomes a bit of a score card.  Also means you can’t lie....

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Opening Up

Posted on Feb 23, 2013

Today I got this question from someone I have previously played with. I had opened him up in my sling but he didn’t manage to get my hand inside him. I remember thinking at the time that he had quite a way to go before he would be wide enough to take a fist despite his obvious enthusiasm – which is second only to his love of punctuation.  😉 Hi Andrew, I would like your honest and experienced opinion on something! This weekend my boyfriend and I spent time with a third person, had loads of hot fun, pretty much no holds barred, to the point of said person pretty much saying that he could fist me without a problem , even though I had told him I’d been unsuccessful in the past. Of course I ended up in...

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Planning for Fun

Posted on Feb 23, 2013

If you can’t plan sex then it’s reasonable to ask whether you can be trusted to plan anything in your life. There are a large number of people who simply can’t plan sex in advance – which I’ve always found a little weird. Two weeks ago I found this advertisement on Craig’s List; I need pain, looking for man to hurt me while I pleasure him – m4m – 25 (Travel to you ) I’m a worthless piece of shit and I want a man to hurt me. Spank me, slap me, abuse my nipples, make me cry and beg for mercy. Can’t host can travel to yours. I will be eternally grateful if you hurt me. I responded: Check out my blog at soxster.com – and you will see I know how to hurt…. Hey looks great… When...

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