I had a great session with Skip – a young 22yo guy who is into sounding. He is pretty quiet and I’m going to have to train him to be a bit more vocal – but I had a lot of fun and I think he will come back for more sessions. 🙂 Thanks to Ryan Z for acting at photographer!
I’m into more than just sounding! I’ve enjoyed many things from bondage to rope to rubber to vac cubes to (more recently) gas masks and much more.
I enjoy exploring kinkiness- I usually try things at least once, but moderate-high to high pain/getting scars/being made bleeding I can’t handle. Discomfort like that kills a boner for me, and is painful rather than pleasureable.
The fun for me in a session is the experience and less the arousal I gain from it- but any arousal is always a bonus!
For example, when I had the blindfold or gas mask on in this session, I found myself just keeping my eyes closed nearly the entire time. It just seemed common sense to keep them closed, I wasn’t going to see anything after all, right? With my eyes shut I was able to relax and feel it more so.
However this had me less vocal (as mentioned by Soxster himself) and a slight jump from my body with the unexpected soft flogs since my mind was not fully at attention or thinking about what was or could be going on. I was just going with the flow- in the moment, and I enjoy it that way.
I really enjoyed the gas mask. I had wanted to wear for a while now and finally got to that night, it added a lot to the experience for me. There was a stage I was just left there mummified laying on the bed in the gas mask. I can’t remember how long I was just laying there alone, but I was zoned in on my breathing and starting to drift off. I was jolting my eyes open every now and again just to stop myself fully zoning off into a nap. I felt in a trance, looking back I reckon it I had let myself drift off completely I might of been a prefect victim for hypnosis!
I will add this though. Soxster mentioned on the day I need to learn relax more, I think he has it right on the dot. Zoning out on the bed was the most relaxed I had been in ages. If I could find a way to relax myself it would be a great help with ass play (I’m a lil tight and tend to get nervous with ass play and that night I was a tiny bit bloody… but oh man that prostate massage, just wow… intensely good is only the start of it) and I’m rather stressful at times in general, so would be nice to relax myself on a spin of a coin!
Currently I find it hard to simply calm and just let my body fully relax- this I want to change.