I haven’t posted anything for ages and I thought I’d post a brief explanation as to why and to reassure you that Soxster will return. In short, I’ve met a perfect boy. I’ve had previous relationships, and in those it’s often been a negotiated open relationship. What’s caught me by surprise is that in this relationship I don’t want it to be open at this time. I always considered monogamy as something to be negotiated out of – and I never dreamed I’d find a boy that I would actually want to be monogamous with. So I’m hoping that’s a good sign. I’m not going to be too explicit about how I talk about PB (Perfect Boy) as a lot of people I know read Soxster and will be able to work out exactly who I am taking about. Let’s just say he’s funny, smart, sexy, incredible and looks great in leather.