I’ve had the following email from William in response to my Gang Bang Boys post…I think it is self explanatory. Hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did.
Over the past few days I’ve been keeping a sort of log. My entry from tonight discussed our conversation last night, which I summed up in a single word: “fraternity”.
In my entry tonight I was covering the seeming contradiction between tops respecting a bottom they are forcing to submit. How can the bottom be empowered when one man is tying weights to his balls and another is wiping pre-cum over his lips? It’s because they are a fraternity. They are bonding through the release of their sexual energy, they are all receiving something specifically nourishing to themselves but in doing so creating that sexual energy that nourishing the rest of the fraternity. It’s far from a contradiction but is a completely symbiotic relationship.
Ready your entry below was like reading into my thoughts themselves. You are a remarkable man, Sir. I’m so glad that I’ve met you (almost). Your approach to sexuality is fun and exciting but also incredibly healthy. So many gay men allow their sexuality to stray into very destructive areas. I’m not just referring to your Scenario A below, which is clearly very unhealthy, but all manner of guys fail to embrace their sexuality in way that enriches who they are. Of course you might argue that is because many are not blessed with the balance of self-control and abandon to make it work.
I know all this to be the case because I just need to look at my non-sexual life over the past week. I’m exercising more, eating better, more focused at work. While I might come home and spend an hour massaging a butt plug into my arse it seems like exactly the way my day should end.
I really hope I please you when we meet and conversely that I am pleased by the process of trying. I know I will learn a lot about who I am through you if you decide to take me on. I wish I could offer you but a fraction of that in return.
Your post below is excellent. I hope their are many men just like me who read it and are as inspired to seek their sexual freedom as I have become.
