I chat with a lot of beginners and unfortunately I often hear a lot of tales of unfortunate first time experiences with BDSM. I’ve been chatting with a guy in his mid 20s who is essentially straight but wants to experience being a submissive to a guy. He had a pretty terrible first time experience. I asked him to write it up to serve as a warning to other young guys.
Unfortunately, he made a number of rookie mistakes – meeting up too quickly and not being clear on where play would occur. The photos on the profile of the guy he went to see were of Club 80 – a very well equipped cruise club in Melbourne – not of his own place. I’m going to hopefully arrange a session with this boy myself – so hopefully he will be back writing up a more positive experience soon!
Hello I would like to inform young guys or newbies on my disaster experience, which was also my first experience in being a slave….
I signed up to Recon after a quick google search as my submissive side was getting very curious, i have never been with a guy before but i have always wanted to be humiliated and abused by one – pretty fucked up fantasy but its my fantasy.
After making my profile it was within a few hours i received a reply and a message, i was excited nervous and very curious.
The Dom had images on his profile, i did not have any but he asked me to send him some images of my penis and body, I am no model and i am a big boy, the dom replied saying what a nice cock i have, this gave me inner confidence, he than sent me some messages saying how he has his own dungeon and has had live in slaves and has been a master for many years and he was eager to train and play with me,
As i have stated i had a inner confidence after the words from the Master. The Master had images on his profile of a dungeon it looked professional and clean and safe.
He than exchanged mobile numbers with me and asked if i wanted to play with him on that night, i was excited but was getting the cold feet as his place was a good 45 min drive, i ummed and arhed and bit the bullet and said that i would meet up with him….
My first warning signs should of been when he asked me to txt him once out side a certain address. As i turned up to the address my nerves where thru the roof so i sent him the txt i am out the front, immediately he replied walk to front door and wait, so i did than he comes out in his profile he said he was 60 but honestly he was at least 70… this should of been my second warning sign, yet i had made the effort and being my size i could probably not be picky with doms / masters…
He was polite and asked how was the drive and said follow me, i thought it was weird he was holding a torch, but this should of sent the alarm bells for the third time… but yet my curiosity took my common sense away from me, i followed him down a darkly lit street after about 500 meters he flicks on his torch and slides open an old rusty gate, thru the gate there was abandoned shopping trolleys, a couple of old cars and some large clean away bins, the grass was over grown, we than proceeded to walk up the side of a brick building jumping over down pipes, and other rubbish, finally we reach a door that opens up until a tiny little room with a double bed , a cage, and 2 cats, the room stank, this is not the dungeon in his pictures, maybe is thru another door… nope he had an old clock radio half tuned into the triple j radio station and a lot of static it was very loud…..
He than asks me to sit on a stool and remove my clothes, i removed my clothes and he was grunting, he than told me to get on my knees whilst he blindfolded me and put me in a stress position as i had my hands tied behind my head to a collar and my legs shackled i had a sense of arousal, but he kept on grunting , and the noise of the radio was that loud i could not get into a correct head space that and the fact of the smell of the room, i kept thinking he would turn the radio off, its hard to concentrate and i was starting to loose my arousal, he than proceeded to pinch my nipples and play with my balls than he left and came back with a but plug he made me lick and suck it and he was very happy telling me i was a good boy, he than proceeded to drop his pants and put his cock near my mouth and at this stage the radio was just static full bore, i could not commit to suck his penis with the background noise and the smell of the cats, i than said i can not do this where he grunted and said me either he than untied me and i put my clothes back on, i felt terrible, i could tell that he was annoyed, but i did not want my first BDSM experience to be any worse, this whole play time was about 30 mins, and i should of read the warning signs, before it got got to that stage, i have lost my confidence to find another dom now, and technically its not really his fault but my lack of common sense, and over excitement shrouded my decision making…..
So I would just like to tell young sub slaves just be very careful and to be very diligent in finding a master and if it dose not feel right please do not push it and walkaway i wish i did….
PS… After a few months i am now again ready to find a dom / master to humiliate and torture me
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