It’s been years and years since I’ve caught up with my ex-boyfriend. He has a long term partner now, and I totally understand that some relationships work better without the ghosts of boyfriends past having around, but he was in town and we caught up for sex. It was pretty hot actually – he came over and was blindfolded on entry so he never actually saw me before I worked him over. He’s heavily into breath control and we got up to some pretty extreme things – which I think he really loved. It’s a good thing we played carefully. After all if my ex-boyfriend had turned up dead in my apartment due to sexual misadventure I’m pretty sure that I would have had a very hard time explaining it. Lots of breath play, bondage, throat fucking and sounding. 🙂