This week we had the final Soxster party for 2024. It was a bondage and fisting themed party, but as always there was a wide range of kinks being practiced. We had a few new guys along to this one, with eighteen guys.

I asked one of the newbies, a stunning boy whose skills at making out with people was impressive, to do the write up. And here it is.

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Hi all!

I’m Wolfe (https://bsky.app/profile/willingmutt.bsky.social) and I recently attended my first Soxster party in Brisbane this past Tuesday night, December 17th.

I’m 22, short as hell (just over 5’6) with hazel eyes. I’m pretty slim, I wouldn’t say I’m muscly but I do have some muscle on me. I’m quite strong for my size. I’ve recently cut my hair short for the summer but like to keep my body hairy for the most part, I think it’s quite attractive. I’m based up on the Sunshine Coast, but frequent Brisbane quite a lot, so you might see me around.

Here’s my write up about my experience.

To say I was nervous would be an understatement. I almost didn’t even go up to the room after travelling all the way there. But after some nice encouragement, I finally built up the nerve to go up. I was shy at first, definitely needed to ease myself into it. I was shown around and introduced to a lot of the guys and just socialised for the first little bit. 

I really was expecting to stay for maybe an hour, if that, and just sit back on the lounge and watch for the most part. I’m quite the introvert and quite an anxious shy guy, so I was expecting to just be a wallflower all night. I think I surprised everyone just as much as I surprised myself with how involved I got and just how quickly. I do think a large part of that was attributed to how nice and welcoming everyone was. Hearing someone state a boundary and have it immediately respected was comforting, I knew that no one would overstep if I wasn’t ready for something. 

I was encouraged to lose some clothes and did just that, stuffing my shirt and shorts into my bag and staying in just underwear for a while. I just moved around for a bit, watching the action in the bedrooms and making conversation with those also just hanging around. The easy conversation and getting to know people definitely helped ease me into it all more. These people were no longer strangers and now acquaintances, and we all shared a few common interests, the reasons we were at the party, so it didn’t feel like we were on opposite grounds. It immediately was a comforting atmosphere to be in. I knew nothing was really expected of me, just to enjoy myself however I pleased for however long I wanted to be there, but once I started getting involved it just felt easier and easier to dive deeper into everything. 

D played a large role in making me comfortable. I, metaphorically and also quite literally, attached myself to them for the majority of the party. We hung out for a long while, making out, which was pretty fun. I actually made out with a lot of the guys, which was pretty fun. I’ve been told I was pretty good at it, which is news to me, and absolutely hasn’t given me any sort of ego about it, definitely not, no way. 

D carried me around a lot which was funny considering we were apparently the tallest and shortest partygoers. It was quite comfortable up there, what can I say! There’s photos of it somewhere which are quite cute.

I continued to get even more involved as the night went on. Joining people in bed, I watched people get fucked and fisted (which was a very interesting and wild thing to see for the first time). I got eaten out a bunch, sucked some dick myself and had my mouth fucked. It was a good time, a much better time than I thought I was going to have. I’m still rather new to the world of sex and kink, but I feel like this is a safe and supportive environment to explore myself in. To explore ideas and kinks and fantasies I’m interested in. Everyone made it so easy to get involved and not feel pressured into anything. I really appreciate the environment and atmosphere of the party. I will admit, even though I knew it wasn’t going to be an issue that I am transgender, naturally I was still a little worried. But no one made me feel like I was any different because of it. It was a very affirming experience.

Soxster has truly gathered a good group of nice, supportive guys who made my night (and first experience of this sort of group kink party thing) a very positive and memorable one! I’ve since been told that I impressed a lot of people, which is very nice to hear, and makes me feel quite good about myself. It’s nice to connect with a community and make new connections. I’ve been needing to widen my social circle, so this all came at a perfect time.

I hope to join more parties and get togethers in the future. I have a feeling I’ll enjoy them just as much as I enjoyed this one, if not more.

Thanks everyone!