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Am I actually kinky?

Posted on Jun 30, 2014

Some questions from a 20yo in the UK who is thinking about getting into kink… Hey I read some of your posts off your website and I have a question, how do you know that you actually enjoy a bit of SM fun, and that it isn’t just fantasy won’t match up to the reality of it happening? Plus how do you take the plunge and just do it? Really good questions. Reality is always different to fantasy. And that’s actually a good thing. There are some things that should remain a fantasy. Sometimes for practical reasons (where the hell can you find a hot centaur?), sometimes for safety reasons (maybe shoving that cactus up your ass won’t feel as good as you imagine?) and sometimes for emotional reasons (maybe I should remain faithful to my partner rather than...

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