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Posted on Jan 31, 2013

Well it’s time for me to go traveling – it’s been almost four months since I’ve been overseas and so it’s time to go exploring again. Comedian Lenny Henry once said we shouldn’t be called Australia, we should just be called “far”. Which is pretty close to the truth. There aren’t many places in the world that are a 22 hour flight from New York.  Rather than subject myself to LAX I’ve decided to change planes in Hawaii and spend some time there in each direction to break up the journey. Just a short trip to New York with a side trip to visit an amazing boy in Orlando…I’m sure there will be some adventures along the way. Stay tuned. And of course if you live in New York and are young and cute and kinky – get in...

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Second Fist for Sissyboy – Part 2

Posted on Jan 30, 2013

Here are a few pics of Mitch and Sissyboy – this is what happened before I got my paw into Sissyboy’s ass.  ...

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Second fist for Sissyboy

Posted on Jan 29, 2013

Well that didn’t take long…. Sissyboy came back for another session. We had a hot threeway with Mitch – who was wrapped in plastic and tape and lay there helpless as Sissyboy sucked his cock and balls while I played with both of their nipples with my violet wand. I rolled a condom down on Mitch’s cock – and Sissyboy rode it while Mitch lay there helpless and unable to move. Then it was into the sling for some sissy ass stretching. His ass was a lot tighter than his last session. Sometimes you can just tell when an ass is going to cooperate. But nonetheless I was able to slide my hand into his tight hole. ...

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Fucking with Ice

Posted on Jan 26, 2013

It’s summer in Australia. While the thought of ice at this time of year may give northern hemisphere gays pause for thought – it’s hot here. If you’ve never given or received a blow job with an ice cube in the suckers mouth then definitely give it a go. It’s fun for both the sucker and suckee. Another favourite of mine is to fuck a guy and then slip an ice cube into his butt and fuck some more. As the ice melts it dilutes the lube and the bottom boy really feels it. Works best for experienced bottoms. Has an element of risk – if the ice cracks in the butt it might have sharp edges so use a small ice cube. And obviously make it smooth before you slide it in. Be careful and enjoy responsibly. For...

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Provenance is Sexy

Posted on Jan 25, 2013

Main Entry: prov·e·nance Function: noun Etymology: French, from provenir to come forth, originate, from Latin provenire, from pro- forth + venire to come Date: 1785 1 : origin, source 2 : the history of ownership of a valued object or work of art or literature A friend of mine was recently clearing out a garage and found the original suitcases that his parents used when they emigrated from Italy to Australia in the 1950s. He asked a local museum whether they would like them and their response was really interesting. They said that they had quite a few examples of suitcases but what would make them interesting was the provenance of the items. If my friend could prepare information on who used them, which town they traveled from in Italy, where they settled in Australia, about their families and...

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BDSM isn’t a shopping list

Posted on Jan 24, 2013

I’m pretty patient with people who are interested in playing, but every so often someone comes along who can annoy me.  The following exchange occurred on Recon with a young guy who had viewed this blog, and who I had talked to about what a beginner session involved. My problem with his attitude was that he just didn’t get that BDSM is about more than a collection of acts. It’s about building a connection. He made no attempt to get to know me, or what my attitude is towards BDSM – he obsessed in trying to get me to detail what would happen to him.. yeh but can you walk me through it on here now first? on how youd go about this jsut i like to be prepared and no what im on for and that we are...

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That’s a wrap!

Posted on Jan 23, 2013

Over the years I’ve encountered Sean a few times. I’ve seen him go from a tall teenage twink to a bit of a bear (as many of us do) in his mid twenties. He is a sweet guy who is pretty shy but is one of the best people at mummifying in Melbourne. It’s a bit of a dichotomy – he is the shy guy who becomes a cling wrap dominant.  He really knows how to get a good result. Nice use of colour, good design and geometric patterns, and some interesting non typical positions. What he creates is essentially art. There is a real beauty in what he does – and like all good art it tells a story. A tale of submission and fun. I think it often frustrates him occasionally that some boys want to be...

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Sissyboy gets Fisted – Part 3

Posted on Jan 22, 2013

You requested it – and here it is.  Not viewable on some mobile devices….  This is Sissyboy taking his first fist – don’t worry that the camera above doesn’t quite capture it – I’ve included the footage from a second camera at the end of the clip.   🙂  The fist locks home at 4:14 – and that’s when you can hear me say “you got it”....

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Sissyboy gets Fisted – Part 2

Posted on Jan 22, 2013

The photos of Sissyboy with the fluro cable ties on his cock are pretty hot.  It’s probably worth reminding people that cable ties can be dangerous and should be used carefully! As you can see in these photos I had two pieces of rope laid along his cock. This meant that when it was time to cut them off I was able to get my scissors  between the rope to cut the cable ties off. In a worst case scenario i could also put my scissors through the rope to avoid cutting his boy bits. It also meant I could pull on the rope and cause a range of sensations (the rope was looped around his balls). So fool around with cable ties but make sure you think ahead – and never leave them on for long. And here...

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Sissyboy gets Fisted – Part 1

Posted on Jan 21, 2013

Wow – what a night….Sissyboy finally took my fist. It was a really special moment. I knew a couple of minutes before it happened that tonight was the night – everything just felt right. He was giving perfect feedback so I knew what he was feeling. When it was time I told him to reach down and he felt my hand as it slid into his ass and locked into place. Of course, we didn’t just fist… Before I share the fisting videos and photos I thought I should start with showing what is possible with the box from my 27 inch i-mac and a box of cable...

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What does Sissy Boy and the Tardis have in common?

Posted on Jan 20, 2013

Newsflash – After many years of effort and practice, Soxster is proud to announce that Sissyboy just took his first fist. And the great news is that we got it on film. Fantastic! Feeling very proud. 🙂 Photos and movies to come. His reaction was incredibly hot. 🙂 As he said, his ass is now like the Tardis – a hell of a lot bigger on the inside than the...

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Biramaye’s Adventure at Club 80 – Part 5

Posted on Jan 19, 2013

As an exhibitionist who loves showing off on cam4.com whenever he can, it was a real surprise to hear that Biramaye had never been to Club 80 before. It’s a gay sex club that caters to a slightly seedier side of sex. Four floors of dark rooms, suckatoriums, cabins and private rooms. I don’t go there to pick up guys – but it is a fun place to arrange to meet people you have met online, particularly if you have hired one of the excellent sling rooms. I sent Biramaye off to explore the club for ten minutes while I got ready for his return. On entry I blindfolded him and brought him inside, stripped him naked, attached a collar and then pushed him into the cage – removing his blindfold as he entered. The cage actually sits outside...

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Biramaye’s Adventure at Club 80 – Part 4

Posted on Jan 18, 2013

This video is a great example of how cum can vary. Two cocks that shoot within seconds – one clear and one milky. And Biramaye sure does love...

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Biramaye’s Adventure at Club 80 – Part 3

Posted on Jan 16, 2013

Biramaye enjoyed hanging around…..oh and he got well fucked in this...

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Biramaye’s Adventure at Club 80 – Part 2

Posted on Jan 16, 2013

Some more pics from the...

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Biramaye’s Adventure at Club 80 – Part 1

Posted on Jan 15, 2013

While he was visiting, Biramaye did a session with me at Club 80. He didn’t know that I had invited two guests to help me work him over. I’m working on a write up of the night – but here are some teaser photos to get you started! ...

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The Rites of Spring (ed mattresses)

Posted on Jan 13, 2013

I was talking to one of my good girlfriends, who enjoys sleeping with young men as much as I do, about the fact that many guys seek me out for their first BDSM experience. She made me laugh out loud when she pointed that “You’ve become a rite of passage”. It’s funny because it’s true. 🙂 I think that for many young gay Australian guys having a BDSM experience is now something that they have to try. It’s up there with going on that big trip to Europe, going to Sydney’s Mardi Gras or buying your first sex toy. (and we Australians know how to travel – there are only about twenty million of us but we are everywhere!) When a newbie tries BDSM they are generally either grateful for the experience but decide it isn’t for them, really...

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Four-way Fun – Part 4

Posted on Jan 12, 2013

The third boy into the sling during the four-way was Biramaye. He had a good ass stretching and a pretty decent fucking. ...

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Soxster Rewind – Gill’s First Session

Posted on Jan 11, 2013

One of the reasons I started Soxster, and started to seek permission from my playmates to publish their photos and videos online, was because of a massive collection of photos I had taken since I started with kink when I was 22. It’s an amazing collection but the problem is that I don’t have releases or permission from those people to publish them (and I wouldn’t publish without them).  It was a bit frustrating having all these great photos and vids I can’t share. I’m gradually getting in touch with various people who I used to play with to see if they would be interested in giving permission for me to publish them. These photos are of Gill, a hot older guy I played with when I was in my 20s. They were taken in Room Six of Club...

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Hawker’s Hedonism

Posted on Jan 11, 2013

I’m a lucky guy – in the past few months I’ve met some amazing young men who are into some serious ass play. Life is good. Hawker was extraordinary. A country boy who absolutely loves to get fisted – and he is only 23.  He is a regular fuckbuddy of Mitch, a 19yo I had played with a few weeks earlier (more about him in a future post). It’s nice when you are getting word of mouth recommendations to come for a session in my sling. Hawk and I had swapped photos and the snap he had selected implied that he was a bit beary – he had facial hair and the angle made him look a bit cuddly. Also his 19yo mate is a very young cub type so I assumed he would be about the same. However,...

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This about sums it up….

Posted on Jan 10, 2013

A better t-shirt would replace ‘love’ with ‘trust’.  ...

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The return of Riley

Posted on Jan 9, 2013

Sunday was awesome. Riley came back for his second session. I didn’t have much time so it wasn’t going to be another marathon seven hour session – but we did play for a couple of hours. This session focused on stretching his eighteen year old hole rather than bdsm. Because I didn’t blindfold him, he was able to relax a little quicker than last time. Within a few minutes of getting hooded and put in the sling the overhead camera was capturing the sight of his ass opening up beautifully. The video is fucking adorable as he is looking right at the lens the whole time. Well, he is actually looking at the camera screen so he can see exactly what is going in his ass. 😉 After I gloved up, I went straight for the prostate with my...

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Loads of Fun

Posted on Jan 7, 2013

Apparently this isn’t a safe sex message. But it should be. Secure your load and don’t blow it anywhere it shouldn’t go. This includes hot asses and the mouths of people who have ulcers or abrasions.  Blow over your men, not in...

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Jason’s Exploits – Part 2

Posted on Jan 5, 2013

Some photos from Jason’s session…what do you think?  I might have to try and fuck a few older guys.  😉  Doesn’t Jason’s boyfriend have an awesome cock? ...

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Jason’s Exploits – Part 1

Posted on Jan 4, 2013

It’s rare for me to play with older guys – but when Jason, a hot guy in his 40s, messaged me wanting to know more about what I did, and wanting to try it, I was intrigued. His emails were articulate, funny, very horny and his body was pretty damn awesome as well. He wanted a session where his boyfriend would watch. I agreed and set some ground rules – including the fact I wanted to meet his boyfriend first on the night we played so that we could establish a connection before I worked Jason over.  The session went really well. His boyfriend and I bonded before Jason was allowed to enter the apartment – which made the session even hotter. In fact, I think his boyfriend, who was initially hesitant, ended up being even more into it...

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Melvin’s Adventure

Posted on Jan 3, 2013

Melvin is a cute Chinese boy in his early 20s who came over for some play. He loves having his ass worked over but is still relatively tight. Used a lot of steel on him but he wasn’t able to take the ass lock with the massive ball on it. He really liked having his nipples worked over – and told me the next day that they were still quite sore. He also said his ass meant he wasn’t quite up to facing the treadmill at the gym the next day. I’m sure he will be back for another session soon!   ...

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Photos of Grayson and Riley

Posted on Jan 2, 2013

In a previous post I described the circumstances where Riley (a hot 18 year old beach boy) fucked Grayson (a hot 18 year old boy with rock star looks). It was awesome to watch. That moment when Grayson’s horniness overcame the pain of the pain of having a hard teenage cock in his ass was extraordinary. When Grayson moaned for Riley to stop being gentle and just fuck him – just seconds before he blew a massive load – it was one of the hottest things I’ve seen. So here are some pics of Riley’s absolutely rigid teen cock sliding slowly into Grayson’s teen ass.  You can’t see Grayson’s cum as most of it landed on his shoulder. ...

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Four-way Fun – Part 3

Posted on Jan 1, 2013

Mick was second into the sling…Biramaye was nice enough to suck him while I worked Mick’s ass with stainless steel toys. After Mick blew a load over his stomach, Biramaye licked up every...

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Four-way Fun – Part 2

Posted on Jan 1, 2013

The first boy into the sling was Sissyboy. He loves having his ass abused…the other guys watching me work over his butt got really excited knowing they were next.  😉  The ass lock had a massive ball on it – it was so much fun fucking his ass with the...

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