The Master Is In (again)

If you haven’t read the previous post – check it out before you read this one.  🙂 This is Alex’s response to the last post: Hey again! Thanks for the massive reply. It’s a lot to take in, that’s for sure. Okay, firstly with me being a...

The Master Is In

One of the things I love about BDSM is teaching younger guys. Always a pleasure to respond to requests for advice received by email (keep them coming): Hey 🙂 I have been reading your profile for a while now. And I just saw your beginner post. My situation is this: I...

Planning The First Time

I have a lot of guys contact me who are beginners and want to know what a beginner session would involve.  I generally take some time to work out what sort of session they are after. Regular sex? Kinky sex? Playing with toys? Giving up control? How much experience do...

Questions and Suggestions

Does anyone have any questions on BDSM they would like answered? There aren’t many things I haven’t done. Ask away! Don’t just limit it to questions on physical acts and specific kinks but also the mental side of sex. I tend to play with a lot of...

Twink Talk

I was talking with a straight friend at a gathering this weekend where there were many young gay guys present and discussion turned to the definition of the term ‘Twink’. I explained that it referred to a young guy who was still a bit cute and innocent who...

Fucking on Rails

There is something very satisfying making love on railway tracks at night.  I was a teenager who was hanging out with a fuck buddy and while we had access to a car, we didn’t have anywhere to go. It was about one am and we walked along the railway tracks and one...