BDSM isn’t a shopping list

I’m pretty patient with people who are interested in playing, but every so often someone comes along who can annoy me.  The following exchange occurred on Recon with a young guy who had viewed this blog, and who I had talked to about what a beginner session...

BDSM isn’t a shopping list

I’m pretty patient with people who are interested in playing, but every so often someone comes along who can annoy me.  The following exchange occurred on Recon with a young guy who had viewed this blog, and who I had talked to about what a beginner session...

The Rites of Spring (ed mattresses)

I was talking to one of my good girlfriends, who enjoys sleeping with young men as much as I do, about the fact that many guys seek me out for their first BDSM experience. She made me laugh out loud when she pointed that “You’ve become a rite of...

The Rites of Spring (ed mattresses)

I was talking to one of my good girlfriends, who enjoys sleeping with young men as much as I do, about the fact that many guys seek me out for their first BDSM experience. She made me laugh out loud when she pointed that “You’ve become a rite of...

Safer Parties

There have been a number of times over the years where I have found myself in extremely hedonistic environments. Orgies, parties, group sex, kink nights, porn sets, to mention just a few. The danger of those situations is that you tend to forget consequences and live...

Chastity

Last month I received a phone call at 1.17am from a twenty year old in some distress. Two days before he had done a session with two tops who love wrapping up boys in duct tape. He had a great time with them  and they had put him into chastity for three days until...