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Amsterdam in Frankfurt

Posted on Oct 31, 2012

It always impresses me how well Germans speak English. It impresses me even more when they switch from German to English mid-fuck when you politely explain to them you can’t understand them. When a boy is being fucked it is often hard to tell purely from the tone of his voice if the word he is moaning means harder or slower. I was in Frankfurt for a single night before my flight home to Australia and I decided to check out a local sauna. I picked Club Sauna Amsterdam as it was close to my hotel. Why is a sauna in Frankfurt named after an entirely different city? No idea. It was a little hard to find – it’s on a residential street and I walked past it twice in the rain. Four levels, two dry saunas and a...

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Hustlaball – The Awards

Posted on Oct 30, 2012

Thought you might like some photos and pics from the awards ceremony of Hustlaball.  🙂  Didn’t have a proper camera with me so forgive the poor quality but it gives you a sense of what it was like.   Definitely the hottest person on stage...

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Facebook Fun

Posted on Oct 27, 2012

A young guy I know who is into older guys posted this on Facebook – one of my favorite posts ever: Just found out I have been sleeping with my mum’s high school crush...

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It’s good to be the King

Posted on Oct 25, 2012

When I was in Berlin earlier this year I visited Sling King and purchased a large amount gear – including another two slings. After I left I got an apologetic phone call letting me know that as I had arranged for them to post the gear to me, they shouldn’t have charged me tax. They offered to credit my account but I decided to have them post me a blue leather sling pillow instead. It was very ethical of them to get in touch with me – and so I returned to their store for more shopping on this trip. Seven hundred euros later and I have a new sling and various sling implements on their way to me. I really recommend them (and I’m not getting any benefits from writing this). I really love their padded sling ankle...

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Did Berlin just get a little bit gayer?

Posted on Oct 24, 2012

Festival of Lights in Berlin – with the Brandenburg Gate becoming a gay flag via projections. Nice. Colors were more vivid than this photograph implies. As Pam Ann said during her show – “A gay man is running around Berlin lighting everything up.” More than one I...

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Hustlaball Blow By Blow

Posted on Oct 22, 2012

I decided to document my experience at Hustlaball in Berlin – and here it is. I thought about adding the pics to this post but better to get a sense of the event first before you see it in graphic detail. Arrived 8:20pm Line up for coat check. I’ve decided on jeans and a new blue leather harness that I bought today. I’m keeping my checked shirt on over the harness, partially unbuttoned, while I sus out the place. Plus it’s also quite cold. I left the leather shorts in my bag – if I get daring then I’ll change into them later. 8:40pm Now have a map of the complex. This is clearly very well organized. The venue is also far larger than I ever expected. Clearly Fictstutenmarkt only uses a tiny percentage of the club. 8:50pm You...

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Sexy Souvineers

Posted on Oct 21, 2012

I enjoy travel. I’m fortunate enough to be able to take three or four overseas trips each year. I’m sure that doesn’t sound like many to someone who lives in Europe or Asia but when you consider that from Melbourne it is fourteen hours to Los Angeles, nine hours to Singapore and about 24 hours to Europe it’s a bit of an achievement. I’m writing this after a two hour flight from London to Berlin – which is an incredibly short flight time for an Australian. When you fly from Melbourne to Europe it takes nearly five hours before you pass over the Australian coast line and head out over the Indian Ocean. I hope everyone in Europe appreciates how easy they have it! And if I hear one more American complaining how long it takes to fly over...

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No need to wrap it, I’ll wear it

Posted on Oct 21, 2012

If it promotes safe sex then I guess I’m in favour of these souvineer condoms that I saw on sale in London. I didn’t buy any as I need ones with a very large nominal width. I bought four boxes with me on this trip from Australia – should be enough!...

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Let’s have an adventure!

Posted on Oct 20, 2012

I’m writing this on the U-Bahn on my way to the tenth annual Hustlaball in Berlin. I’m filled with a sense of anticipation that is almost child-like. It feels like I am going on an adventure – in the same way I did when I was younger. This has prompted the following thought. Are events like Hustlaball successful in part because they appeal to the same desires we had as children to explore and prove ourselves in new environments? Is attending a party where people will be naked and fucking merely the adult equivalent of a child exploring their neighborhood? Is the darkroom the adult equivalent of a dark and scary wood to be explored? Is dressing up in leather or underwear the equivalent of putting on a superhero cape and mask? (Actually, many superheroes wore their underwear on...

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Collared in London

Posted on Oct 18, 2012

This week I visited Collared – a kink night in London that is held twice a month at The Underground – a London venue that hosts a lot of fetish events. It is a very short walk from Kings Cross / St Pancras. https://www.clubcollared.com/ Collared is a fun, non threatening evening that is perfect for bdsm beginners. It is held in a small basement space with a bar. The event has a DJ and a few colored lights but the decor is definitely basic with a sort of ‘abandoned cellar’ motif’ being given additional authenticity by the fact that’s probably what it was. It’s very small – by the standards of Australian clubs anyway. But that does give it a sense of intimacy. When you arrive at the club you come down a staircase and reach the cloakroom where...

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Bi Boys and Danish Queens

Posted on Oct 17, 2012

Another question from a reader. ******** Hi there Soxster! I actually write to you for guidance because i’ve enjoyed reading your posts, and you seem like a nice man with sense in his brain 🙂 I’m from Denmark (if you know where that is?). I’m 25 and I currently live with my girlfriend. I’ve always had some gay tendenciest, but now that we moved in together and time have passed the urge have grown a lot stronger. It’s not that we dont have great sex – its just like theres missing something. Besides our sex-life our relationsship is great. I’ve talked to a gay couple that have wanted to fuck me for over a year now, but i’ve hold back. They are quite hot! so it’s getting harder 😛 Me myself im 178cm, 78kg, blond and blue eyes. I...

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Trust and Risk

Posted on Oct 12, 2012

Alternative title: Why bondage masters shouldn’t act like Bangkok taxi drivers I was talking with a sub recently who told me about a master who wanted him to do something that involved a level of risk that he wasn’t comfortable with. When he expressed reservations, the master said “What’s the matter – don’t you trust me?”. I’m increasingly aware that many people tend to confuse trust with risk management. I thought it might be worth exploring this issue and hopefully prompt both subs and masters to discuss this issue more openly. The term ‘trust’ is defined as a firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something. In a BDSM content it is about whether the sub has a belief that the master has both the state of mind and knowledge base to perform particular...

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Full Service Airline

Posted on Oct 11, 2012

As I mentioned in a previous post, Soxster.com is back in Europe in October. By coincidence, Alex was on the same flight I was. I decided it was only appropriate that he help relax me prior to my 14 hour flight from Australia to my stop over city. It’s about 24 hours from Melbourne to Europe and I generally stop over on the way for a day or two. Alex was also heading for Europe but connecting straight through with a four hour connection (total travel time of more than 26 hours) – further proof of his masochistic tendencies. Here is Alex’s account of our first face to face meeting. He is an interesting guy who I am looking forward to tormenting again in the future. ********* The world is a small place. Travel means that as long you...

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Submissions about Submission

Posted on Oct 5, 2012

A sub has submitted the following experience – hope you enjoy it. Tom and I had played a few times and were really getting into each other when he casually mentioned that he liked to be in control.  A few weeks after that, we talked on the phone and agreed to get together one Tuesday night.  I told him to come over and just come on in, he would know what to do.  At the appointed hour I heard a car in the driveway and my heart started racing.  I was feeling the excitement I always feel when I am giving over control to someone else.  I had turned down all the lights in the house and when he came through the door it took a few minutes for his eyes to adjust to the low light level.  I...

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Look out Europe, we’re going on tour…

Posted on Oct 4, 2012

Yes, that’s right – off to Europe. In October, Soxster will be in London, Berlin and a few other places….I wonder what adventures await?   😉   Stay tuned – this is going to be...

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Alex’s First Adventure

Posted on Oct 3, 2012

You might remember Alex from his story that I published on 5 June. He was visiting Australia recently and came for a session. I didn’t have a lot of time unfortunately – so I needed to multi-task playing with both him and a cute puppy boy. Here is Alex’s recollection of his introductory session.  I think there will be more to come… Message me before you leave for instructions. I’m ready. The instructions followed.  Arrive at door of the apartment block and call. One final check. Heart racing. Calm down. Calm down! You have chatted online, never heard his voice, never seen his face. What are you doing? My brain kicked in. That was why I was going. That was why I needed to go. It wouldn’t slow my heart rate. I can’t remember getting down the stairs. One...

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One for the fans…

Posted on Oct 1, 2012

I got the following email from a fan of soxster who was interested in a particular shoot… ************ Hi – how are you? Just a brief note to let you know that I love reading your blog – the detail is brilliant. I was wondering whether you know what the guys were wearing in your post dated 19 Sep 12 and entitled “Inappropriate Jokes” – both are hot. Have a great weekend. K  Hi there Thanks for your question – the top was wearing rubber shorts.  I’m not sure what the btm was wearing (brand wise), but I’ve got plenty more pics and videos of that shoot so I’ll try and find some pics that show the brand. The orange trunks certainly showed off his ass really well. You’re into sports gear like that? Andrew Thanks for replying. Yeah...

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