Bi Boys and Danish Queens

Another question from a reader. ******** Hi there Soxster! I actually write to you for guidance because i’ve enjoyed reading your posts, and you seem like a nice man with sense in his brain 🙂 I’m from Denmark (if you know where that is?). I’m 25 and...

Trust and Risk

Alternative title: Why bondage masters shouldn’t act like Bangkok taxi drivers I was talking with a sub recently who told me about a master who wanted him to do something that involved a level of risk that he wasn’t comfortable with. When he expressed...

Full Service Airline

As I mentioned in a previous post, Soxster.com is back in Europe in October. By coincidence, Alex was on the same flight I was. I decided it was only appropriate that he help relax me prior to my 14 hour flight from Australia to my stop over city. It’s about 24...

Submissions about Submission

A sub has submitted the following experience – hope you enjoy it. Tom and I had played a few times and were really getting into each other when he casually mentioned that he liked to be in control.  A few weeks after that, we talked on the phone and agreed to...