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Portugese Tart?

Posted on May 24, 2017

From time to time some beautiful boys get in touch with me to talk about kink. Often they have very limited experience – which is...

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Reflections on Monogamy

Posted on May 13, 2017

IIt’s been a very interesting year for me. Most of my readers know that I’m a very sexual person. Monogamy with a partner was...

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It’s just sex…

Posted on Aug 30, 2015

There’s been a lot of talk recently about Bro Jobs….where straight guys blow each other for fun. There has been a range of...

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Am I actually kinky?

Posted on Jun 30, 2014

Some questions from a 20yo in the UK who is thinking about getting into kink… Hey I read some of your posts off your website and I...

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Deep in Texas

Posted on Feb 27, 2014

I’m in Texas at the moment, unfortunately without any time to give the local boys what they apparently need. šŸ˜‰ However, I was very...

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Posted on Nov 19, 2013

Well I finally did it…. I was sick of boys saying that they couldn’t find my site…. “It’s like an under...

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Beginners Guide

Posted on Nov 6, 2013

As I’ve no doubt mentioned before, I do play with a lot of younger guys and beginners. In fact as I write this I’ve had my...

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Putting on a show

Posted on Oct 30, 2013

I mentioned to a friend of mine that I had hit more than 600 viewers on and he casually mentioned that he once topped 1,100...

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Young Lust

Posted on Oct 23, 2013

I’ve been reflecting on the awesomeness of some young people today and the fundamental differences between them and how I was at...

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Addressing Rumours

Posted on Sep 14, 2013

Just to address a few rumours flying around, no I did not damage my arm by fisting the Incredible Hulk. Yes, my arm will be stuffed for a...

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I’m Definitely Getting Old

Posted on Aug 3, 2013

I recently attended a high school reunion which included an optional tour of the campus before the festivities began. The last stop on the...

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Risky Business

Posted on Jul 1, 2013

I might be adventurous when it comes to sex but I’m conservative when it comes to drugs. It is really interesting to me how many...

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Sexy Souvineers

Posted on Jun 28, 2013

I enjoy travel. I’m fortunate enough to be able to take three or four overseas trips each year. I’m sure that doesn’t...

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Xavier Help?

Posted on May 22, 2013

I have a boy who has a fetish for Xavier school uniforms (A Melbourne private boys school – as featured in the autobiography...

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Improvisational Self Analysis – Part 3

Posted on May 11, 2013

Well, well. A few if you are quite bitchy, aren’t you? In response to my question about what a boy could put up his ass I received a...

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Improvisional Self Analysis – Part 2

Posted on May 6, 2013

I’ve had some suggestions: If your young friend is into computers then he can store it in old pc case – you can fit a lot in...

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Improvisational Self Analysis

Posted on Apr 29, 2013

Dear Readers – I need your assistance and recommendations. I’ve been talking to an eighteen year old who lives at home with...

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We gave the world, new ways to….

Posted on Apr 5, 2013

An extremely vanilla friend of mine was once told by a mutual friend that I had been trying a new fetish. His response was,...

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Sounds like I have a good reputation

Posted on Mar 18, 2013

I got this message from someone who I’ve been talking to regularly about BDSM: Him: You’re not in loft room 6 at Club 80 by...

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Digital Clocks Aren’t Romantic

Posted on Feb 25, 2013

A very funny comedienne once said that one of the least romantic things to have in your bedroom is a glowing digital clock. She said that...

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Opening Up

Posted on Feb 23, 2013

Today I got this question from someone I have previously played with. I had opened him up in my sling but he didn’t manage to get my...

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Planning for Fun

Posted on Feb 23, 2013

If you can’t plan sex then it’s reasonable to ask whether you can be trusted to plan anything in your life. There are a large...

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Foreign Affairs

Posted on Jan 31, 2013

Well it’s time for me to go traveling – it’s been almost four months since I’ve been overseas and so it’s...

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Fucking with Ice

Posted on Jan 26, 2013

It’s summer in Australia. While the thought of ice at this time of year may give northern hemisphere gays pause for thought –...

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Provenance is Sexy

Posted on Jan 25, 2013

Main Entry: provĀ·eĀ·nance Function: noun Etymology: French, from provenir to come forth, originate, from Latin provenire, from pro- forth +...

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BDSM isn’t a shopping list

Posted on Jan 24, 2013

I’m pretty patient with people who are interested in playing, but every so often someone comes along who can annoy me.Ā  The...

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The Rites of Spring (ed mattresses)

Posted on Jan 13, 2013

I was talking to one of my good girlfriends, who enjoys sleeping with young men as much as I do, about the fact that many guys seek me out...

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Safer Parties

Posted on Dec 25, 2012

There have been a number of times over the years where I have found myself in extremely hedonistic environments. Orgies, parties, group...

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Posted on Dec 10, 2012

Last month I received a phone call at 1.17am from a twenty year old in some distress. Two days before he had done a session with two tops...

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First Time for Fag Boy

Posted on Dec 7, 2012

I chat with a lot of interesting people online and recently I’ve been chatting to a closeted bi boy in his mid 20s who refers to...

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