In praise of uncertainty

A few of my friends and playmates have been a little critical of my response to Slave M cancelling his session (see the post on May 29 “Good help is so hard to find”). The consensus seems to be that I should have gone easier on a bi-boy who was reaching...

You like music? What a coincidence

On a number of occasions I’ve had guys, particularly young guys, tell me that they are kinky and into everything. I think that the following joke is the best response to this:  A man is sitting at a bar, looking very depressed, when he strikes up a conversation...

Good help is so hard to find!

I’ve been looking for a house boy to help out around the apartment. When you have as much gear as I have, then I really need someone to help me keep it sorted out and appropriately arranged. There are stainless steel toys to boil and polish, leather to buff and...

Non-verbal doesn’t mean non-oral

In a previous post I wrote about sex with a deaf guy. I thought that people might also be interested in the time I played with a boy with cerebral palsy. We started chatting on Grindr. He was hot and cute, a bottom and barely out of his teens. In other words, pretty...

Seen but not heard…

I once had amazing sex with a deaf guy. It was with a thin, asian, twinky guy in his early twenties who I picked up and ploughed senseless. What made this experience incredibly memorable was the way he moaned. I’ve often complained that sometimes moaning during...

Safe and Sane – Rope Work

If you are getting into rope play, then you really need to consider getting something like this.  A rope cutter. Not necessarily for routine use during the session, but it should be kept somewhere close so that you can get someone out of bondage very quickly.  There...