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Posted on Mar 20, 2019

I must say I’m impressed. This furry guy has been taking care of himself and lost some weight and is looking pretty good. He’s terrible at smiling though....

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Suck Boy

Posted on May 18, 2017

Story submitted by – let me know what you think. He’s “foryouandyourmates”‘on Recon. We haven’t met so if someone in Melbourne wants to do a session with him and submit a review of the quality of his throat that would be great 🙂 ************** I’m a discrete, kinky sub guy who enjoys pleasing guys. Fit guys and tradies enjoy my velvet throat and sometimes my tight arse and a bloke straight from the gym or football / soccer dressed in their gear has me on my knees drooling to worship him. I have always enjoyed men’s socks and underwear smells. The whiff of a jock that’s been contoured to a blokes cock and balls for a few hours of exercise, with the scent of sweat and precum mixing together drives me mad. Tonguing the skin between a blokey...

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Posted on Apr 16, 2017

What do you do if you’re in a committed relationship but you want to show off your cock? Well you ask me to post it. This horny boy loves showing off online – if you want to see more of him please let me know....

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Posted on Apr 6, 2017

Thanks for the submission – anyone else want to give it a...

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Still Alive

Posted on Nov 18, 2016

I haven’t posted anything for ages and I thought I’d post a brief explanation as to why and to reassure you that Soxster will return. In short, I’ve met a perfect boy. I’ve had previous relationships, and in those it’s often been a negotiated open relationship. What’s caught me by surprise is that in this relationship I don’t want it to be open at this time. I always considered monogamy as something to be negotiated out of – and I never dreamed I’d find a boy that I would actually want to be monogamous with. So I’m hoping that’s a good sign. I’m not going to be too explicit about how I talk about PB (Perfect Boy) as a lot of people I know read Soxster and will be able to work out exactly who I am taking about....

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Mont’s mummification

Posted on Jun 4, 2016

Mont is an interesting boy. He’s 28, blond, athletic and very much into bondage. His Recon profile showed a pretty wide range of bondage experience. We agreed that for his first session he would be blindfolded on entry. As it turned out, he never saw me – with the blindfold coming off just before I kicked him out the door. He’s a lot of fun – I really enjoyed playing with him and he’s hopefully going to become a regular bondage boy. I can definitely picture him being left in the corner, bound and helpless, while I fuck other boys. In his first session we did some bondage, ass stretching, mummification, some rope work, and finally got him off while he was restrained and...

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Soxster is at IML

Posted on May 28, 2016

Soxster is in Chicago for IML this weekend. If you love showing off in front of a camera please get in touch at You don’t have to show your face – we’ve brought a supply of hoods with us! In other news we are finalizing the design for our new website at the moment. Sneak preview below. We are looking forward to taking Soxster to the next level and hope you’ll join us on the...

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Bondage for Beginners

Posted on May 4, 2016

A very special young man has asked me for some advice on how to act as a bondage top. He’s normally a submissive and wanted some advice on how to give someone a really good session.  So in no particular order – here are some tips for beginners!  🙂 What they can’t see… Having the sub blindfolded is a great way to take control. It gives you a number of advantages – it ensure that your authority is increased, it makes the sensations being experienced by the boy more intense and it gives you time to work out what you are doing. If you aren’t sure what to do next, then the blindfold buys you time to work it out. What you interpret as “thinking time” the boy will interpret as “anticipation of what is to come”. Have a Safeword...

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London, Tallinn, Riga and Copenhagen

Posted on Feb 24, 2016

Soxster will be in Europe for a quick trip – feel free to say hi! 🙂

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What do you want?

Posted on Feb 14, 2016

I’m getting closer to appointing some people to help redesign and I’d like your help – what features or functions would you like to see in the new site? Please comment and let me know!...

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Posted on Feb 6, 2016

A new eighteen year old soxster boy named Anton. He’s a fascinating guy who is definitely a little bit of a pain pup – he gets very turned on by CBT, nipple play and impact punishment. From our discussions prior to us meeting I guessed that he might be a perfect candidate for having his ass stretched out. I thought that he would really like that combination of pleasure and pain that comes from really stretching a teenage hole to its limit. So I did. And he did. So I have a new goal – to fist Anton before he turns 19.  I can’t wait.  🙂  He leaks precum pretty much all the time (which will make future sounding sessions very easy) and he’s very obedient. Favourite colour is green so I wrapped him up in green tape. Also took...

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Help Wanted!

Posted on Feb 5, 2016

Hi everyone, So it’s time to redesign and start editing videos and I need some help!  I’m looking for video editors, preferably in NYC, and a UX and UI Developer who can develop the site in a wordpress framework. Yes, I’m expecting to have to pay people for their services. Does anyone know anyone? I think this would ideally suit a student or recent graduate. Comments and suggestions on the following scope are welcomed – help me improve soxster! 🙂  Please comment below! Thanks and I really appreciate any and all feedback. Andrew ******* SOXSTER DESIGN Soxster is a gay kink website that will feature porn, blogs, educational pieces, etc. The goal is to transition over time into a lifestyle brand that has a number of elements, including clothing and toys. We want to build a close relationship...

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Not everyone is for everyone…

Posted on Jan 31, 2016

People look for a lot of different things in their sexual partners. Everyone has different things they are attracted to. Which is awesome. One of the things that a lot of young gay men have a difficult time coming to terms with is that just because you love someone then they don’t have to love you back. It’s a VERY hard lesson to learn. It’s very easy to convince yourself that if you love someone deeply and passionately enough, then they are under some sort of obligation  to reciprocate your feelings.  “If only they knew how much I loved them then they’d love me back” is an oft heard cry. I know from experience that it is very hard to convince a young gay man that if the objective of their affections doesn’t love them back, then it’s absolutely ok because if someone...

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Posted on Jan 28, 2016

I thought this was a very creative way of hiding attachment points....

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Real punishment….

Posted on Jan 24, 2016

I was organising a get together with boys and I asked one boy to bring lemonade along ….. He initially resisted…. The important thing to note here is that he knew I wasn’t kidding…....

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Soxster goes international…

Posted on Jan 3, 2016

Well it’s a new year and is switching its base from Melbourne, Australia to New York and Berlin for 2016. So you’ll be seeing some more non Australians during the year. But don’t worry – we still call Australia home. But the big news is that it’s time to try and start editing all the photos and videos that have been taken over the years and try to develop a more professional site.  I’m passionate about showing people that playful kink is possible without the “suck my cock, bitch” attitude  and helping people have better experiences. So if you like what we do and would like to be involved, please get in touch.  Particularly interested in film editors and web designers who can collaborate in the West Village of New York City. Also with almost all the gear...

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Looking for new soxster boys…

Posted on Sep 8, 2015

I’ve decided to advertise for a new sub to train up….posted the following advertisement on Craig’s List…..I’ve had a few interesting boys message me so far….hopefully you’ll be able to observe the training up of a new soxster boy very soon.  🙂 ********************** Love to train teens – m4m (Melbourne CBD) height : 6’8″ or > (203cm) status : single age: 39 I’m a 39yo BDSM master who lives in the CBD who enjoys training up young guys. My philosophy involves taking a young man and training him to be an awesome submissive. My objective is not to break his spirit or degrade him but rather to give him the experience and skills to be an awesome fuck toys who loves to pleasure a man or men with a high level of confidence. If you have limited experience and...

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Posted on Aug 12, 2015

My first message from Timon was pretty standard: Thanks for getting back to me.  I’m living your tumbl. I’m very curious about all this. To the point where I would like to try stuff with someone who knows what they’re doing and it’s safe and clean. I’m 24. Slim. Blonde. Tall. Vers bottom and definitely has a kinky side. Can you tell me a little about yourself and let me know if it’s something you can help me with. Thanks 🙂 We agreed to do a session and he came over and was blindfolded on entry. The session went really well, and he had expressed an interest in being sounded. The blindfold came off about half way through the sounding so that he could see the steel pushing in and out of his cock.  🙂 Timon wants to come back...

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Return of Charlie

Posted on Jun 15, 2015

Nineteen year old Charlie came back to visit me in Melbourne – and I couldn’t have been happier to see him. He’s a really amazing boy. 🙂  He spent the whole weekend with me and it was pretty wonderful.  I’m pretty sure I’ve extolled the virtues of his oral skills and cuddling ability in previous posts….and I can assure you that my descriptions of his prowess in these areas have not been overstated.  I jerked him off in the stocks while his head hung over the edge of the bed while I fucked his throat which was a lot of fun. Also wrapped him into my sling and fucked him that way….  🙂 He gets a little self conscious that he still doesn’t quite know how to take a really long pounding…and feels ashamed he can’t take it for...

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Posted on Nov 12, 2014

Does anyone know of any kink friendly silversmiths in Australia? I have a very special project I need help with….

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Some people die at 25….

Posted on Oct 29, 2014

“Some people die at 25 and aren’t buried until 75.” – Benjamin Franklin Hi everyone, sorry for the long delay between posts.  Thank you to everyone who took the time to check I was ok!  🙂 I’ve been off living life and haven’t had a chance to update you all on the various adventures I’ve been having.  It’s been an interesting time and I’ve been learning a lot about myself. It’s good to stop and reflect every so often. Stay tuned – I’m not dead...

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Andrew Soxster is in Brisbane…..

Posted on Aug 22, 2014

Anyone Bored? 😉

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A Mars a day helps me sound, fist and play

Posted on Jul 22, 2014

I had a quick introduction session with Mars – a nineteen year old boy who is almost tall as I. And let’s face it – that’s pretty freakishly tall! He’s smart, cute and I hope to get him back into my sling for a full session soon. I stripped him down, leathered him up and threw him on my bed. I knew we didn’t have much time, so I focused on running a violet wand over his bound body, before clipping him into my sling and sounding his fairly impressive cock. He hadn’t tried studded sounds before – so that was a new experience for him. I played with his ass and he had his first experience of amyl in a gas mask.  A quick, fun, introduction session – which should build trust for our next session.  🙂  I...

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How Charlie learned to stop worrying and take the cock: Part 1

Posted on Jul 17, 2014

I had a great weekend with eighteen year old Charlie.  There was kink, there was cuddles, there was kink combined with cuddles (kuddles?) and lots of good times.  Here is the first part of his write up of the weekend. After three nights of snuggling, my bed has felt quite empty since he left… Recently I took a weekend off from my busy schedule of doing nothing and sleeping during the uni holidays to travel to Melbourne and spend some time with Andrew. This being just our second meeting, I was slightly intimidated at the prospect, seeing as I was spending the entire weekend in his apartment in the city. Still, I wasn’t about to let the opportunity slip through my fingers, especially as our last planned meet in April was derailed by an unfortunately timed illness that Andrew...

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Ivan’s Eighty Adventure

Posted on Jul 16, 2014

I did a good session a few weeks ago with Ivan in room six at Club 80.  He’s got a great body and an amazing ass, but it didn’t quite cooperate on this occasion.  It happens – you can have the most experienced fistee in the world and occasionally his hole just won’t cooperate.  I had good time though. He’s a nice guy, great body and brilliant attitude.  Hope we can play again soon.  🙂  ...

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New Logo

Posted on May 27, 2014

What do you think of the new logo?  🙂  It is done by a talented artist – Red Bones. Check out his art here:...

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Someone call a wambulance!

Posted on Apr 25, 2014

I had a really good first session with a horny bi boy a few weeks ago.  When I did something to him it became a thing for him to say “waah” in an humorous and dramatic way – so I’ve decided to refer to him as Wahmiq.  🙂 He never saw me – he blindfolded on entry until he left.  We focused on bondage, cock sucking, sounding, ball shaving and mummification – enjoy his review of the session and some of photos. my session as a soxster boy has been great we finally got to meet. as i was on my way to his apartment i was excited and couldn’t wait to have our session. he had me outside his apartment made me turn my back around, my heart was going crazy i then heard him open his door...

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Prequel for Reg

Posted on Apr 24, 2014

Some more photos of Reg in the sling. These were taken back in 2013. 🙂...

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Hustlaball for Beginners

Posted on Mar 1, 2014

I have been talking with a young man in his 20s who will be coming for a session when he is next in Melbourne. He mentioned he had been to Hustlaball and I asked him write up his impressions. I’ve been to the Hustlaball in 2012. It was really cool. I went with a friend. Actually I had no idea what I was going to see. For me, I thought it would be another normal festival, like Circuit in Barcelona. But it was really crazy. When I was there I was in shock. I had no idea that people were going to fuck all over the parties, group sex with more than 100 guys and everything was an ordinary thing.   At the first night, we went in a pre drinks in Axel Hotel. After that we went to...

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Soxster on Tour

Posted on Feb 14, 2014

Well it’s time to go traveling again – I’d rather be freezing my ass off in NYC in February than cooking it in an Australian summer… I’ll be in NYC, Austin and Los Angeles on this trip – so feel free to get in touch if you’re young and kinky in those cities.  😉...

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