The conquering of William, Part 4
I'm looking forward to work over William. He is making great progress and we haven't even met you. Instructed to purchase a butt plug that would require some effort and practice to get in, he correctly purchased a good size toy. He has been working to take it - and...
The conquering of William, Part 3
In preparation for our first session on Friday, William has been shopping for jock straps. I think he has been really enjoying this as he went back to buy some more...as the email chain below shows: I have a confession to make. I may have bolted down to Manhaus after...
The conquering of William, Part 2
In preparation for William's first session with me, I asked him write me an email documenting his fantasies. Here they are, along with my response. I kind of like the idea of my balls being pressured or treated a little bit rough. But here goes - these are probably...
Kenan’s Friday Night Fun
I did a great session last week with a hot boy who really likes to play the submissive. I had a really enjoyable time working him over. The best evidence for this was that after a very full week of work, I had enough energy to work Kenan over from late Friday night...
The conquering of William, Part 1
I've recently started chatting to William, who is a mid thirties guy who has no experience with BDSM. He really wants to explore this side of his desires. We've had a number of conversations online, and I asked him to document our first telephone conversation - which...
Eric’s Adventure 2
I've been emailing Eric about his adventures and I asked him if he thinks his experience at Fickstutenmarkt has changed him as a bottom, whether he met up with the guy who he was planning to meet and whether it made him a more confident fuck - this was his response: I...
Eric’s Adventure
Eric has sent me the details of his adventure at Fictstutenmarkt. It really is a great party and I wish I was there fucking him - along with the other mares. 🙂 Hi Andrew This might be way too long and it's not edited, I put this together as quickly as I could but...
Eric Did It
A potential mare I have been talking with about Fictstutenmarkt went through with his plans to visit the party! Here is his email from just after the party finished! Hi Andrew, I just came back from the FSM. It took about 15-20 mins for the first man to mount me. I...
Stuck On You
A question from a reader: Hey Andrew, what kind of wrap do you use when you mummify a guy? Got a sub guy who wants me to do it to him 😛 And how much tape to you usually use? Any type of cling wrap is fine - just make sure you have enough. I generally do a thin layer...
Pool Boy
I posted about the subject of enemas in the 'shit happens' entry. I had the following submission from a reader about their early experiences:After reading "shit happens" it took me back to my first sexual experience. Well, the first outside of wanking. I remember my...
Chains and Clips
The chain has a long history in human restraint. A heavy length of shiny stainless steel chain is unmistakably modern yet somehow linked to the slaves of ancient Rome, the prisoners of medieval times and the convicts of the eighteen century. When buying chain from...
Drop Sheets and Shower Curtains
Two really useful things to have on hand are drop sheets, that are often used for painting or home renovations, and shower curtains. Both are examples of cheap things you can buy that can really improve your sex life. They can be used to keep things clean, and if you...
Stable Fucks
Well it seems that the information I have been posting about Fickstutenmarkt in Berlin has been of interest to many boys - mainly mares! I've discussed this amazing sex party previously - but I've just had another review submitted. This was actually the second time...
Greg is Back
For those of you who prefer your young men to look like men, Greg has been back for another shoot - complete with Prince Albert.
Brush Strokes
Paintbrushes are inexpensive and a lot of fun. They work better when a boy is blindfolded and work best when he is also restrained. Paintbrushes are all about creating sensations - and for something so simple they can create a wide range of them. On a hot forty degree...
Best Bondage Store in Australia
Many beginners to bondage ask me how to get started. My advice is always to go and visit the best bondage store in Australia: Bunnings. Bunnings is a hardware chain - probably similar to Home Depot in America. It is absolutely the best place to get started. The only...
Punctuality Is Sexy
I'm often surprised by the inability of people to plan sex in advance. All too often I have boys cancel plans at the last minute or fail to show up. I find this lack of respect annoying - and I've learned that boys who can't learn how to use diaries generally make...
Slaveboy Sessions
A few pictures from a shoot that I thought you might enjoy. 🙂 From a hot three-way.
Good Posture
Sometimes it is hard to kneel straight and tall....
Home City
I once asked a friend who now lives in London if Melbourne still felt like home. I loved his response: "Well based on the fact that your home city is the city where you feel least comfortable walking down the street in full fetish gear, then yes." Probably one of the...
Kinky Kitchen
I'm pretty useless in the kitchen. If I'm boiling water on the stove then it's more likely that I'm about to sterilise sex toys than cook. Here is one of my favourite recipes: Take one or more soiled metal sex toys. Choices can include stainless steel dildos, butt...
Playing a Character
New favourite line upon seeing a boy with a really hot ass: "That makes me want to play the back end of a horse"
Straight Boys + Alcohol
We were discussing straight boys and alcohol, and the theory that straight boy + alcohol = higher chance of sex A friend of mine responded: "Using alcohol to seduce a straight boy is like using a cheat code in a video game" Hil-arious. I'm inclined to agree with this...
Shit Happens
I was recently asked by a guy how he should clean his ass prior to a session to make sure he was clean. I'm probably the worst person to ask about this sort of thing - because I'm a Dom Top who doesn't like getting fucked. Nonetheless, I've learnt a few things over...
Music and Sex
"Music is like sex, it's too important to be left up to the professionals!" - Robert Shaw Ravel's Bolero comprises the same theme, performed 18 times in a row, by different combinations of instruments. It is a gradual crescendo over more than fifteen minutes. An ex...
Negotiation
Straight people might laugh - but negotiating what porn to watch with a gay partner can be interesting! I found this clip amusing! 🙂 http://www.collegehumor.com/video/6785670/a-couple-decides-what-porn-to-watch Anyone have any protocols when agreeing what porn to...
Pick Up Lines
I like pick up lines - they're funny and they break the tension. A new one I just heard: "Have you ever chewed on thousand thread count Egyptian cotton sheets?" I like the fact it's a tiny bit classy.
Horsing Around
My posts on Fickstutenmarkt have been getting quite a bit of attention. I thought you might like the following email exchange: Hello,I found your blog through the official website of the horse market in Berlin. Thanks for providing such a detailed information on the...
Happy End of Financial Year
In Australia the end of the financial year is on the 30th of June - and I've taken the opportunity to stock up on various implements in the end of year stock-take sales. Including tape. I bought a great box of coloured tape - 36 rolls in purple, red, orange and green....
Sacha’s First Gangbang
In a previous post I talked about Sacha, the cute 22yo twink with blond streaks in his hair. When we played he had actually just come out of a serious relationship that he had been in with an older guy. He was looking for some fun and wanted to explore. We hooked up...