The Soxster Blog is a constant source of stories and inspiration from our exploration of kink.

Stretching in a Brisbane Storm

Next week we have a gangbang scheduled for two cute boys. I’m really looking forward to it but there were some of us who wanted to have our holes played with this month and so I arranged for a small group stretching session last night. We had a group of 10 people, including four people who hadn’t previously been to a Soxster party. It was a really fun night - with the added addition of a pretty intense thunderstorm passing through at about 10 pm. Some people had already left by that stage, but...

You Are NOT Alice In Wonderland

"There seemed to be no use in waiting by the little door, so she went back to the table, half hoping she might find another key on it, or at any rate a book of rules for shutting people up like telescopes: this time she found a little bottle on it, (`which certainly...

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The Master Is In (again)

If you haven't read the previous post - check it out before you read this one.  🙂 This is Alex's response to the last post: Hey again! Thanks for the massive reply. It's a lot to take in, that's for sure. Okay, firstly with me being a top, it's something we have been...

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The Master Is In

One of the things I love about BDSM is teaching younger guys. Always a pleasure to respond to requests for advice received by email (keep them coming): Hey 🙂 I have been reading your profile for a while now. And I just saw your beginner post. My situation is this: I...

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Planning The First Time

I have a lot of guys contact me who are beginners and want to know what a beginner session would involve.  I generally take some time to work out what sort of session they are after. Regular sex? Kinky sex? Playing with toys? Giving up control? How much experience do...

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Flexible Working Arrangements

Over the years I've been lucky enough to have sex with a number of ballet dancers. The first time you fuck a ballet dancer when he is lying on his back and he decides to tuck a leg or two behind his head it's a little off putting. But you get used to it really fast....

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MMmmmmmm….shiny

My love of stainless steel toys is well documented on this site. I thought you would like to know about my recent purchases.  My four latest toys are three butt plugs and a solid steel dildo. Two of the butt plugs are the same but with different jewelled ends - one in...

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Questions and Suggestions

Does anyone have any questions on BDSM they would like answered? There aren't many things I haven't done. Ask away! Don't just limit it to questions on physical acts and specific kinks but also the mental side of sex. I tend to play with a lot of younger guys and I'm...

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Police Interuptus

We were just a couple of horny teenagers driving around a rural area outside of Melbourne. We had been out at a party and didn't want our night to end just yet. We drove around and talked, and then started feeling each other up as he drove. I felt his rather...

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Stairwell Suck

So a very hot boy who blows me occasionally - and who has the second hottest mouth I've ever experienced - just sms'd me and asked if I was available for a quickie before he caught the last train home....this all happened less than an hour ago. Jeremy: Licks you...

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Twink Talk

I was talking with a straight friend at a gathering this weekend where there were many young gay guys present and discussion turned to the definition of the term 'Twink'. I explained that it referred to a young guy who was still a bit cute and innocent who wasn't a...

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Blowing Smoke

When it comes to the various available vices, I tend to focus on sex. I don't drink a lot. Don't smoke. Don't do drugs (unless you count amyl).  But I think that what I do to my willing subs more than makes up for it to ensure that I don't miss out on fun.  ;)...

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Suitable for a greek dinner?

I recently purchased a shirt and I now have a problem - where in the hell would be a suitable location to wear it? Interestingly, about half the people I show the shirt to (yes, at the very least it is a conversation piece), think of exactly what I thought of - the...

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Melbourne is kinkier than Sydney

There is a long standing rivalry between Sydney and Melbourne. Australia actually built a new capital city, Canberra, from the ground up because it agreement couldn't be reached as to whether Melbourne or Sydney should be the capital. I'm a proud Melbournian. When I...

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Fucking on Rails

There is something very satisfying making love on railway tracks at night.  I was a teenager who was hanging out with a fuck buddy and while we had access to a car, we didn't have anywhere to go. It was about one am and we walked along the railway tracks and one thing...

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Sex and Immortality

I'm often asked for my opinion on what constitutes good porn. I think it's fair to say that I've seen more than my fair share, and I've certainly made more than my fair share. A former flatmate of mine used to refer to himself as a "Pornoisseur". He had a massive...

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Here’s looking at you, kid

I play with a lot of beginners - guys who haven't had much sexual experience. I really enjoy showing guys new things, I guess it fulfils my love of education and teaching. So I wanted to share a story from right back when I first started having sex with guys. It's a...

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American Navy Boys and Lard

If you are in any of the photos on this web page I've linked to below of American navy boys climbing a giant phallus covered in lard, get in touch: http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/the-ultimate-collection-of-hot-shirtless-navy-guys And seriously America - you've been...

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Gangbang Tops Wanted

I have a number of young guys who enjoy being gang banged. And many more of them have earned it by demonstrating they can take a long hard session. Put simply, I need guys in Melbourne, Australia who can help me fuck the hell out of them.   The sessions will normally...

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Suck It Up 2

In a previous post (Suck It Up) I detailed my experiences with a hot boy who likes to be scared. Kyle loves to be made to cry. He has given me permission to post a small clip from our session. He is an amazing boy who I look forward to working over some more in the...

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Alex’s First Time

I really enjoy hearing about the first experiences that boys have.  I've been talking to a British sub named Alex (n-uksub) who is a regular visitor to Australia who I am planning on working over when he is next in town. I asked him to write about his first BDSM...

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In praise of uncertainty

A few of my friends and playmates have been a little critical of my response to Slave M cancelling his session (see the post on May 29 "Good help is so hard to find"). The consensus seems to be that I should have gone easier on a bi-boy who was reaching out to have a...

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